If you love someone how will you tell him or her about your feelings.

Mauritius
June 10, 2009 5:06am CST
I am a secret lover of a guy who do not know about the feelings i have for him. I love him very deeply and now i would like to tell him about it. But i'm afraid of his reactions towards me may be negative. Please tell me how i can disclose my hidden feelings to him
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3 responses
@med889 (5958)
10 Jun 09
I will talk to him directly though at first I might be feeling a bit awkward but I cannot keep my feelings only to myself butI will share it with him no matter if he agree or not atleast I have said what I wanted to say.
• Mauritius
11 Jun 09
You are right it is better to be frank than suffer alone for nothing. Thanks for your advice.
@hanah87 (1846)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 09
Maybe you can give him a love letter.I think it is better than you tell him by your mouth and feel ashame.You can avoid feel shy if you give him a letter and can let he make his on own decision.I believe he will understand your feeling after read your letter.Thank you.
• Mauritius
11 Jun 09
I'm afraid if he shows the letter to someone i know and they make fun of me. But it is a good idea to open my heart with words.
@kamisha (95)
• Mauritius
10 Jun 09
well loving someone secretly is not wrong but before loving him;i mean when you first met him,you should have asked him everything about his life whether he already has his partner or not???then afterwards you can do your first step if he doesn't have...like this you'll not have any negative answers from him.....as for loving him secretly;you just have to remain close to him and share all his happiness as well as his pain....by doing this he can has feeling for you....if you really love him just help him when in need...as we say "everything is fair in love ans war" so don't be discouraged..he'll understand your feeling towards your support for him....
• Mauritius
10 Jun 09
Thanks for the nice reply. Love is not only a heart to heart relationship, it is also caring, sharing joys and sorrows and helping the person in need. This secret love is called blind love.