She gets around!

United States
June 11, 2009 3:15pm CST
Whoa! My sister is going a little crazy. She has been going around telling everyone that she is celibate. Oh, except for that time she got very drunk and thought she was pregnant. Then she went around her place of work telling everyone she thought she was pregnant and expected this guy (a coworker) to pay for the abortion! Oh, and except for that guy that she also worked with that she had an ideal of 'corrupting' I think that really she just wanted someone to buy her pot for her and he wouldn't do that so she wrote him off as a jerk. Oh and then there was the very quiet guy with stringy hair... and a couple of days later she is showing up with another guy and they are making out in front of me. When I ask her what happened to the last guy he pipes in with... 'Oh, well that's my uncle.' Whoa! Okay, so I can understand having aunts and uncles younger than ourselves. I have an aunt and and uncle younger than me. But, for the nephew to steal the girlfriend from the uncle? Weird! My sister has had some HOT boyfriends in the past, but I wouldn't even begin to think about dating one of them! Dude! Thats been with my sister! Weird. But, I do believe at the rate she is going there will not be any guys left in the world for me to date! Do you thin it's right for people to be like this. Obviously she isn't looking for a serious relationship, she is just looking for the next great thing. And, I don't think people should be going out with people just for the thrill of the moment. That is both irresponsible and totally cruel to the hearts of any that might think you are going with them because you actually like them! Do you think it is right to 'steal' from your relatives, would you be intimate with someone you knew had been intimate with one of your relatives? Do you know anyone like my sister?
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@x_Jo_x (1042)
11 Jun 09
Hmmm thats tricky! I dont know anyone like your sister as such. I have one or two friends that might be close but have settled down now. I dont think i could steal from relatives, but then again ive never been put in that situation! I think it is probably quite common because we are quite similar to our siblings a lot of the time, even if we dont see it. And although we can have some major differences you will have both been brought up similar, therefor sharing some views and things. So for a guy to like you and maybe think "this isnt working out" then to meet your sister and they get on really well... that is probably quite common. Not saying that is right though, id hate the thought of being with someone who had been with my sister! Thats just so.... ewww! lol
• United States
11 Jun 09
Exactly! Ewwww! I know I was with someone once and afterwards I found out that he had been with my cousin years before. I was so disgusted by this! I was mad that she didn't tell me and actually had encouraged me to consider going out with him. But, especially like if I knew someone was dating my aunt I wouldn't sweep in and try to steal her boyfriend away. That is just wrong on 2 counts!
• United States
11 Jun 09
About the stealing of relatives... boyfriend? It isn't too common but I think it does happen. Way.. Way... Back in time people usually marry someone around town; not across cities or states. So again... Way.. Way.. Back you usually meet people that dated someone in your family... or KNEW(mostlikely) a family member. But today times...yeah it is odd your little sister has did that. Did you ever try to have an adult talk with her about responsibilities and "there is a time to have fun and a time to not". Also about remorse, moral, ethics?
• United States
12 Jun 09
Way, way back they didn't really date either, did they? Haha, I wish I could have an adult talk about this stuff with her, but I'm afraid she doesn't really listen to me about stuff like this. And my mom believes this is a phase that girls go through. I will admit I went through a little wildness myself. But, I don't think it was a phase of mine and I don't think hers is either we have both been sexually abused in our pasts and I think it has more to do with that than anything. But, even in my wild phase I was still looking for a stable relationship. I didn't start acting like a 'guy' about it.
@doggyhouz (548)
• United States
11 Jun 09
I don't know much about this. But as long as she is responsible and safe like protection then she should be fine. By any chance how old is she?
• United States
12 Jun 09
She was molested when she was 12. And then she fell into a group of girls that also had and they sort of started 'using' this to get their way from family and such. Then it moved on to sort of using guys. I think that maybe she feels like she is 'in control' now so as long as she is the one in charge it's okay.
@moondancer (7434)
• United States
13 Jun 09
I'm not sure that I personally know anyone like your sister. It's seems to be that she is not happy and does not know what she needs to do to be happy or content for that matter. She may not be looking for anything just yet. She must be young and young people do silly things. Some older people do silly things because they have not grown up yet. It's hard to say what is going on with your sister, since I do not know her. I'd say if you want to find someone to be with that you hang out and travel in different circles than your sister does.
• United States
13 Jun 09
Thanks for the response. I agree, she has a few friends that I like, but they are mostly the friends she doesn't like anymore. One of her friends got pregnant and decided to keep the baby. My sister won't talk to her but I do. My sister also had a boyfriend that she left because he was, and I quote: 'Too big' Haha, I still talk to him from time to time, but it is only as a friend because I don't think that if he so much as TRIED to go there I could do that with him. I like smart people... she doesn't care weather they are smart of dumb... but her idea of smart is totally different than mine. So, we are more different than night and day. In fact, the only night I conceivably see us hanging out together is on her 21st birthday... she has promised this day to me. And, whatever, I think that a person can grow up a lot in 3 years... I sure did!
• United States
12 Jun 09
OKay thats just nasty. Not to be mean and rude but sound to me like someone Ho'in LOL. Yeah its okay to go out and hang out but sleeping with anything and everything that walks thats just nasty really. And as far as being intimate with someone thats already bein with a friend or family memeber no that wouldnt even happen to start with. And besides that my Friends (females) do have pack we dont date/sleep with anyone guy the other has unless the other is okay with it but more than likely it wouldnt happen anyway just depends on the reasons behind them spliting up. LOL. But we do have respect for each other as friends to not do something like that. And as far as family gos we all have different taste in guys so that wouldnt happen either.
• United States
12 Jun 09
Yeah, I wouldn't even go after a friend's ex. Or steal from a friend like that. I'd be having issues with 'picturing' them in bed together and not be able to enjoy my relationship with the person!
@underdogtoo (9605)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
I think your sister is very interesting but I would not spend too much time thinking about people like that or even other people at all because I have too many problems of my own. Cheers!!
• United States
12 Jun 09
I wouldn't normally be concerned if it was anyone but my sister.