If in your past was a moment when you got a broken heart...

@icesmile (7172)
Romania
June 12, 2009 12:40pm CST
You will tell your husband or wife this truth after you marry? Or before? Sometimes is hard to talk with actual mate about what was in the past, and is very hard to say to him that somebody hurt you a lot, and you was down. You will be very honest and tel your hus/wife all about what happened in your past love relations? Or just you will keep for yourself few secrets? The honesty is the best policy in this situation?
2 responses
@sahana84 (16)
• India
13 Jun 09
Hmmm... thats so difficult to decide whether to tell about the past or not. Even if we tell and our we often meet with our past then definitely our present relationship would not be strong.. What do u say?
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
13 Jun 09
Hi, depend how strong was relation before...you know are people who can forgot, are people who can t forgot and choice to be alone for the rest of theirs life. In my opinion, love is just one time in life, if somebody was inlove, really inlove, maybe he or she will find somebody who respect, or maybe somebody who give his love.....but is important don t make him suffer for your past relation.
• India
13 Jun 09
I have a question, as i have already what if past is still contact with me for some official reason and dont u think my hubby will start feeling jealous for not being my first love and starts quarelling ... Yes, again it depends on how mentally strong he is and our relationship.
@jugsjugs (13045)
12 Jun 09
I think it is best to start a relationship the way you mean to carry on,as in open and honest.I would rather be open and honest that way you do not have no sedrets from the start.If the other person found that you had not told them then they would feel hurt that you could not confire in them,which will not help your relationship at all.Happy mylotting.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
12 Jun 09
I am agree with you a honest relation with all cards on the table is the best, but if he or she will acuse you after you will tell the truth?