I am getting mad about my lover

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@sonusd (1547)
India
June 13, 2009 5:57am CST
Hello friends I am in love with a girl since 1 year , she is my child hoodfriend, i care a lot for her but now days i want to keep physical relation with her,we are not yet married so she is not agree to do all these things before marriage,but i cant understand why she is saying no tome? because after marriage i will do the same thing then why not today? because our family also know therelation and everything else has finalised, she love me also ver much but saying no to this thing only, is it my less convincing power or she is shying or she is a veryy good girl? what is your opinion about this?
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15 responses
• India
13 Jun 09
Hi friend, According to me you are very lucky that you got this type of girl in this type of world.she deny because of her embolishment from her family. She is nice for you and your family. so always try to protect you love life and obey her decision. She is having fear in her mind, that is why she is hesitate to establish physical relation, may be..... But if she is not ready that you should not force, this is my view. Happy loveLife.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
13 Jun 09
you are agree but I think every man needs the thing and we love each other since so long andour family also has fixed our marriage for next year then why should not we enjoy things from right now?
• India
13 Jun 09
Understanding is the first key of strong bonding. if You really love her then you should agree with her and wait for one year. and if she is agree then there is not a problem.
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
Honestly, you are so very lucky to have her, now a days, you can hardly find someone like her... She just wants to keep the most valuable thing that she can give you when you get married... And if you do really love her, you must respect her decision.
• India
14 Jun 09
i think she's realy a good girl but u will not match her..... love is not such a relationship which is only to have physical contacts it is more connected with ur feelings towards love...... might be u r going to marry her and next______ but u cant force for such things now itself..... however u r going to die one day y dont u die today itself....!!!! even this matter is of the same kind..... pls understand....... moreover to have physical contact with someone whom u love u need to have a valid licence nd that licence is marriage.... I PITY FOR U MAN FOR ASKING SUCH PERSONAL THINGS PRIVATELY....... just think wat if ur girl see's this i think she would not forgive you............
• Malaysia
14 Jun 09
Friend, i agree with all the opinion given by others which u get a good girlfriend. Please respect her and understand her more. Don;t getting mad about her, you should feel happy. She is doing very well to keep her most valuable to her husband who is you. Why cant you bear until after married just get from her? Am wondering are you really love her as what u mention? If you really love her, please respect her and protect her. She need understanding and considering from you, guy.
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
If I were your girlfriend, i will be mad at you. Why asking for an intimate moment when you are not yet married? For me, it is taking advantage with the girl. We don't know what will happen in the future. Yes, you are in a relationship with her. Maybe the relationship is going strong. But who knows. You might not end up together in the end. There are cases of split-ups even the day before the wedding!So we don't really know what comes ahead of us. Be respectful with your girlfriend and with her decisions. You are lucky that she is a good girl. I am not boosting myself but I am also conservative when it comes to that. :)
• China
14 Jun 09
Take it easy. I think it batter to do that thing after you get married.Love is not jst the physical relation, of course, that is an important thing. The most important is respect to each other. So, I think your lover is a good girl.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 Jun 09
hi... sonusd... you love her truly right? respect her decision. she's a good girl. if you don't want to lose her because of your desire of having *** with her then please wait for the moment that she'll give up everything for you. it's not easy i tell you. you're lucky to have her. :) learn to understand and enjoy each others company more.
• Malaysia
13 Jun 09
You should be lucky having a girl like her. Don't be mad at her. Be patience and it will reward you later. You will cherish that moment in your first night with her. It will some makes your wedding your most memorable memories. You should respect her decision. Its like her most precious treasure and it is yours after you marry her. Chill man. I really respect a girl like this.
• United States
13 Jun 09
Be glad she is like this....her morals are great!!! If she is this committed to saying No now...she will be a FAITHFUL wife....thank her and quit stressing her out..Thank God you have a Good!!! woman...
@magic9 (980)
• China
13 Jun 09
I think you girl is nothing wrong on that. since you are bound to be together one day, why not wait for a bit longer? someone must have to yield first. I think she has very good reason for insisting on that.
@Azaerus (820)
• Philippines
13 Jun 09
I think your girl is nice and very sacred when it comes to her virginity. To most girls their virginity is one of the most respected aspects they have. I think she only saves it until your marriage or honeymoon. My advice is better respect her decision it'll make her happy and make her realize that you respect her and love her that much.
@postlover (191)
• China
13 Jun 09
You should ask her for the reason. if she refuses you again, you should respect her, if you really love her. why don't you get married? as you said, you love each other and all of your family agree the relationship.
• India
13 Jun 09
Hi this is very hard luck to u my friend i think u r not convincing her very well try again and again never ever give up. if she love u really won't deny good luck
• United States
13 Jun 09
i think it all comes down to her sense of morality. it has nothing to do with you. she just wants your first time to be special.
@xyzxgt (89)
• China
13 Jun 09
Well,as for me,she is a very good girl,she just wants to keep the most valuable thing after you are married.I am a conservative man,I approve your GF'S action.And I think,she does not want to keep physical ralationship with you now represents that she loves you so much as you say.You should cherish such a good girl.