Is very important for you your happiness or your lover happines?
By icesmile
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
June 15, 2009 3:40pm CST
So, you give more or receive more?
I am not Mother Thereza, and i think that if i want make you to be happy, you can work in my happiness too, if you apreciatte my effort to make you happy!!
I am right? i can t say that i can give everything and don t want nothing back.
I am selfish? i don t think so....how i can give you all my love and you don t give me nothing? You can t ignore my love, you must learn how is to give and receive.
Is not a trade, but if you like to feel that i love you..i want feel that you love me too....I care a lot if you are happy or not...but...i care if you can make me happy too.
Is something wrong here?
4 responses
@Wink24 (167)
• Philippines
5 Jul 09
hello..
i think it's not bad at all. you just want to feel loved,
but, i think, if you really love someone or you do something, you must not expect anything in return because you're the one who'll get hurt if your expectations didn't met. i'm not saying that just love and love and love without asking anything in return but i believe that if it's meant for you, then you will get it in the right time at the right place at the perfect moment. all your efforts will had a fruitful results someday and all your prayers will be granted in due time.
for me, if i really love someone, i rather choose his happiness than mine. it's better to see that he's happy with other instead of being with me but not happy at all, anyway, if he really loves me, he'll choose me more over the other.. happy mylotting.
@jugsjugs (12967)
•
16 Jun 09
I find that it is very upsetting for a person to give all their love all the time to the person they love and do not seem to ever get any love back in return.It is a sad fact of life that some people just can not show their love as they just do not know how to,or do not want to.I find that if you give/show love you should at least ger somthing back in return.Happy mylotting.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
15 Jun 09
Happiness, is a choice you make, you can be happy or not but you cannot make someone else happy. You can be loving and caring but being happy is up to them. If your relationship is not making both of you happy you better take a long hard look at it, because it's usually not going to get better unless something changes.
@Kolla08 (48)
• United States
15 Jun 09
I usually am the one who always wants to see other people happy. I like to help people make good decisions so that their life will be ok. When it comes down to me and my boyfriend, im always doing things to make sure that he is happy. Im always looking for his best interest. Sometimes im so worried about him and whats best for him that i get lost in the things i need to do for myself. But in our relationship it goes both ways. He always thinks of me and whats best for me. My baby loves me and i guess with the balance of both of us caring for eachother we have eachother down pack.
