what do you thing if your boy friend just call you one time in a week?

Indonesia
June 19, 2009 10:18pm CST
I am very sad...I always thing that he has forget me,he never call me and never replay my mesage but when I try to the and our love he said that he love me... and he said that he can't call and replay my mesage it's because he was busy...I thing is not true, because when I near with him he is not too busy..but why when I far with him he was busy axcidently....ohhhh...i am confused...what would I do???
4 responses
• China
22 Jun 09
if only just read your post.my first instinct is to judge that your boyfriend wasn't love you.may be he thought he love you very much but actually that is not real love.lol:)of course we cann't judge him only by your saying.
@Ammudoll (549)
• India
20 Jun 09
I don't think he is really loving you, when a boy says the he is busy and do not give much attention to the partner at least once in a week, then he might have another intention. You better talk to him and ask him what is the problem and move on. Because your situation is very much alike my colleague's issue. She fell in love with him and he showed interest on her, later he stopped talking to him in the office and didn't even calling her after going home. when she asked why u are avoiding me the reason he said - I don't want our office employees should know about our relation but at the same time he started dating another employee from his department. Disgusting guyssss
@momiecat (997)
• United States
20 Jun 09
There is a saying that goes..."actions speak louder than words". In other words if your "boyfriend" does not show that he loves you by wanting to be with you or speaking to you more than once a week, then his actions don't match his words even if he says he loves you. I am wondering how long you have been dating? I think you should investigate to see if your so-called boyfriend is seeing other girls/women. You have to keep your eyes open and do not be fooled by idle words. May be it is time for you to get involved with other things or other persons and if he really cares about you, he will show that he wants to see you more. If not, then it is time to move on and find someone who will appreciate you more.
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
20 Jun 09
Well, I am a "boy" yet I'll take a chance to reply here. If I were in that place, and in that situation, I would have called him and asked him to meet me some day. Then, I would ask for the sole reason as to why is he showing disinterest in me??!! Is it that he's really busy or he's trying to get along with someone else. Actually, idea of confronting the person is the best one to get such issues sorted out.