Would you still love your bf/gf if she/he gained weight?

@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
June 22, 2009 2:41am CST
For me I would hope our relationship was about more than appearance. I wouldn't find her as physically attractive, but I would still love her. Have a nice day to all of you!
4 responses
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
I was amazed when my bf came back here in the Philippines last May as he had gained a lot of weight. I used to see him in webcam every weekend but it doesn't look obvious on webcam though there was once that I said that he looks like he gained some weight but that was last December. Even if he has gained weight lately, I still love him so much and I love hugging him even in public.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hi my friend sophie-dfuss, when I was reading it, I was staring at my body now, I can't stop stop gaining weight. Still my fiancee still loves to hugged me so tight and never leave my side. She usually tells me even your chubby, your still sexy for me and I just laugh. It's not really that appearance that counts, it's the love that doesn't fade no matter years passed by, it's just both of you that counts a lot. The time your gonna spend your life together and cherished and to hold. Anyway friend sorry for the late reply. Have a great day!
@nehaagra (848)
• Singapore
9 Jul 09
Yep i will definately still love him, as physical appreance doesn't matter much, more important, is the person himself/herself. As we grow old, both of us shall loose he charm n glow, so we need to think about inner beauty n not the outer one.. But yep, if anyone gets obese, shall defiantely try to reduce weight, as apart from apperance obesity has lots more disadvantages...
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hi nehaagra, I think the same thing nehaagra, everything fades but not loving the person for what the person is. The beauty can fade but the love is always there. It's like waking up in the morning and I seeing her face, but you never get tired of loving her/him, but loving her/him more and appreciating each other everyday and taking care for each other that counts a lot. Sorry for the late reply! Have a nice day!
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
22 Jun 09
it does not matter to me abot his personal appearance too for it is not about the out side appearance will give me happiness but it is on his inside with a big love to me and with respect to our relationship. We all know that our personal appearance will never be forever at ease, it will not last when we get old. The love will always be forever if it is sincere.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Hi patzel88,yes you said it right, beauty fades but not the glow inside the person that makes you love him/her for what she/he is. Appearance will never be their forever and the love for you and your partner that counts that each day it gets stronger. Have a nice day to you1
@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
23 Jun 09
I think that two people who know each other well (and who are in a relationship) is beyond all that physical stuff. I definitely would still love him - but I'd encourage him to go running with me or something. Mainly because it's not healthy to be over weight. And especially for us - we LOVE to eat. Hahahahahaha... I think one of the most interesting things about me and my bf is that we both like exercising, so hopefully we won't have this problem. Going to the gym is one of the things that we do "together" - we do different things together when we get there. But walking in and out hand in hand is just...*sigh*...melts my heart. We have told each other though that we shouldn't let the other get "too big."
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Hi khayzhenz, same here, she usually tells me to loose weight, it cause health problems. But she is always there for me even I gain a lot of weight. What counts is we both love each other for who we are. I was telling her I'll be dieting and go for a jogging. But my problem is I love to eat and we do love to cook together. She's trying to lessen me to eat rice then I used to eat. Anyway have a nice day to you!