Romance

@jugsjugs (12967)
June 22, 2009 4:56pm CST
Do you feel like the romance has gone out of your relationship.Was there much romance when you first got together with your partner?
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
23 Jun 09
i have not experienced this word romance in my real life..because i dont have a girl friend to know abt this romance, because im 19..i am trying to get a girl friend, but nobody is interseted in me..this is the real fact..so no love no romanve for me.. happy to respond...happy mylotting
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
24 Jun 09
Romance......... Hello Gunagohan, please forgive me for intruding but I have to ask, why do you think that no one is interested in you romantically. What do you think you could be doing to turn the girls off? Usually women are after the younger guys like crazy, so I have to ask ,,why not you? What do you think you might be doing to turn them off? If you have a job and a car I think it's very easy for a guy to pick up a girl. So please tell me what is the real deal. I look forward to hearing from you soon. take car and wishing you all the best in life and in the girl department. Happy mylot!
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
26 Jun 09
i have mentioned that im 19 and im a student, how can u expect a car and a job from a boy of 19..?? by the way, girls doesnt like me, i could not find the reason, i think of myself that girls like only men who are pink and white color(tom cruise, brad pitt)..they dont like men who are brown or black.. i come under this category, im a brown skinned man, girls never come to me..they dont even talk with me, so i too do the same.. eager to hear from you... but i have enough money in my pocket...
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@dozhou (326)
• United States
22 Jun 09
The truth is that I am not that kind of romantic guy. So my wife is not either. In my belief, romance can not last forever. You should face the reality finally.
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
24 Jun 09
Romance........ Forgive me but I think it's kind of strange that you say, romance cannot last forever. Then you say everyone else should face reality. Well I must say, if you are not being romantic with your significant other then does that mean that you don't make love either? Because if a guy wasn't being romantic with me I wouldn't be giving him any hugs or kisses, not to mention lovemaking. I don't know, I just think that you are wrong and you are the only one that can change things. If you change then she will change and they you will start getting your world rocked more often. Happy mylot.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
26 Jun 09
There was a whole lot at the beginning than there is now. But then anything's more than ZERO.
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
24 Jun 09
Romance......... Was just saying the other day to a friend that once the marriage begins alot of other things end. So it's like a transitioning process. Things can only continue to go on if both people are at peace with their situation. Different things take a toll on marriage. People have children, they move, they have bills. If two people can still enjoy romantic times after all of this has occurred they are very lucky. As for me I've been married for over twenty years. The romance has kindled but I know deep down that he still cares. We still go out on occasions and try to enjoy each others company. Long story short, other things begin to take priority over the romance, so one must be careful not to let it die. Peace out.
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• United States
24 Jun 09
Hi Jugs...No, I think the romance has gotten stronger in my marriage. You know when you first start out in a relationship or marriage you are trying to mold your lives together. Getting you place in the workforce...buying your home...having your family and trying to provide a little more for them than what you havd and then you finally find it is just you and the husband or wife...alone again and you now have time to do all those things you have been wanting to do or try for the past 25 years. This is when you find out that those things are not so important anymore but what you have been watching unfold the last 25 years was what was important. Now you can have all the romance you want to have and live proud the rest of your life knowing you accomplished what you had set out to do. flutterby
@trinee (514)
• Trinidad And Tobago
23 Jun 09
I don't think that the romance has gone out of my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and I still feel the passion there. It could be because we are still young in this relationship but I think between the both of we will we try to hold it steady. Things don't always stay the same but you try to maintain certain level of communication and love and find ways to keep the spark there despite the obstacles. It requires work and effort on both sides and that connection that will hold you two together. Take care..
@trickiwoo (2702)
• United States
22 Jun 09
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, in fact our 3 year anniversary is this week! I don't feel like we've lost the romance overall. There are times in our relationship where everything feels very routine and not at all romantic... but then things will start to heat up and get very passionate between us and suddenly it's all very romantic again!
@qiyunhai (254)
• China
22 Jun 09
maybe romance is important,not necessary life is just like a cup of water
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• Philippines
22 Jun 09
No, I do not think that way... We are still very much in love with each other. My boyfriend and I were already three years and a half, but the love is still here...haha