Heartache from a distance
By pinklemonade
@pinklemonade (486)
June 23, 2009 3:17pm CST
When all you can think about all day is that particular person
And all you want to do is speak to them
And you count the time till you might get to speak to them again
And everything they say to you isn't enough because you could listen to them all day
And you see them speak to others and not you, and it breaks your heart
Because knowing them means everything to you, yet you are looking from afar
Anyone know what I mean?!
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11 responses
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
24 Jun 09
Yes, I understand what you mean there perfectly. Love can hurt too even though love is such a wonderful thing. I used to be like that and I would yearn and get my feelings hurt and wondering when will I ever be able to confess my true feelings for the person that I've loved. And not knowing whether that person was going to reciprocate the feelings back at me as well.
I know what you said about looking from afar and that kind of love is pure and true, unlike the stalker-type of love which is not healthy. Love is such a weird equation and it will strike when you least know it. Good discussion here..
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 09
i totally know what you mean, been through this before so i can relate in some ways. something that one should not endure at all!
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
i totally understand the depth of your emotion and hurt you are feeling. i have been through it for years. anyways, hope you will get it over and will not have suffered through it like me for many years. just look up and see the bright things in life.
@pinklemonade (486)
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26 Jun 09
I am sorry to hear you suffered for so long hotsummer. I will try and see the bright side to things and hopefully everything will end up ok : ) I hope things turn out ok for you aswell
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
yah... i can understand a bit of your agony about the person you loved... it hurts but i don't think that you were meant for that person... speaking to other people, is that a big deal to you? i mean your love has the right to have conversations to anyone... i don't think you're ready to be in love... no offense... :)
@pinklemonade (486)
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26 Jun 09
It's kind of a weird situation. I am not in love with this person. And the man I am in love with I am in contact with alot so it is not heart ache at all because we love each so much we talk and I know we will talk the next day too. I think it's because this particular person I know doesn't feel the same
@voldrox (7191)
• India
24 Jun 09
hi pinkle... i believe i understand some part of it if not all, i will tell you what i can interpret out of this... you are really attracted to that special one and want to spend a lot of time with that person talking and all... but when that person is not around you always think about him/her and can't wait to meet him/her the next day, and sometimes you really feel insecure when he/she talks to someone else and you want to know more about him/her and let him/her know more about you!
go slow and keep it going, don't let him/her know that you are feeling desperate and insecure, talk to him/her often and after the right time slowly let him/her know what you feel about him/her... just be yourself and act patiently!
@pinklemonade (486)
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26 Jun 09
thanks voldrox! yeah that's what I am going to do I think. Just see where things go, concentrate on outletting my emotion elsewhere so I don't freak them out.
@merlinknight (24)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
When I am in college. My bestfriend was in love with 1 of our classmate. He's the most handsome guy in our class although he's a silent type and I don't like guys like that because I don't know what they're thinking. Back to my friend. Well! She's always having him in her dreams and drank herself to sleep to forget about him because his girlfriend was her seatmate and her heart breaks into pieces everytime the girlfriend shares their story to her. And then the time came, she already decided to take a step forward and tell him that she likes him so much. When we graduated, she e-mailed the guy about her feelings for him. She thought that will make her feelings free from him but it didn't. The step she made broke heart, her dreams, her wholebeing because the guy shared it to his girlfriend and to his friend. It's like her whole feelings was being slapped to her face full and hard but still time heals everything and now she find her prince and they're having their baby soon.
@pinklemonade (486)
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26 Jun 09
That is a really sad story but kind of happy at the same time. I'm really glad your friend found the right person for her.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
I do not like this feeling at all. I would like to be free and independent from the encumbrances which takes my mind and binds it to this thought. Cheers!!
@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Yes it is hard for us to think of the person far from us what is really happening. You are eager to talk to him/her but not caring about you. You keep on thinking but the other person do not think of you. In distance, communication is very important because in just one day you did not talk, you are already thinking about him, why he/she don't communicate to you. There are lots of why in our mind, and we are confuse.
@pinklemonade (486)
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26 Jun 09
yeah one day not speaking to someone is quite along time for me! I wish other people felt this way too so I didn't feel like some stalker for wanting to speak to them more
@Jakywoo (102)
• China
24 Jun 09
I think I know what you means.Are you fall in love with him or her?In my eyes,only if a person fall in love with somebody that he or she will have many feelings in heart.If I were right,then I hope you understand what you should do and hold the love which might be yours.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
maybe you were saying...you love someone but that person doesn't know you loved him/her? is it?...or you are jealous when u see your love one talking with somebody else?...it is a normal feeling to get jealous...and missing someone we love.we always wanted them to be with us as often as we could and spend time or each moment together...ahh...that is love,so intense that can even break rules...and no one is ever exempted =p
