How do you react to a friend that acts out of character and ....................

does something that hurts you to the core? I had reason to go and live with an old friend in the Spring of this year. I was only there for two and a half months. Something upsetting happened in my life and gave me cause to go home. Most of you have read the discussion I wrote about the guy and what happened with him and I and the sweet revenge I got. Well, anyway, now I have this to contend with. I was back at my daughter's home and had been here for about a month when she decides to accuse me of stealing some jewelry and dvds from her. Bizarre right? I don't steal and especially not from a friend. This is like a bad dream! And this seemed to just come out of the blue too. Now, there is some other underlying information. Back afew months she seemed alittle upset because I befriended this guy on a social networking site we both were members of as well as she did. She felt he was a great photographer and wanted more information about his pictures but didn't keep him on her list becasue he and I got friendly. [i think this was an excuse and that she liked him]He and I hit it off and got closer as time went by. I think she was alittle jealous. She kept giving me negative feedback about online relationships and such. Well, months down the line he and I quit the relationship we had been building due to the fact that he was a player and I caught him in the act. I showed him to be such and if you read my other posts about this you know the story. So, I told her about it and she was glad it was over. Next thing I know she is acusing me of stealing from her while I lived there and has taken him onto her friend's list on the site. Oh, and she had told him something and won't tell me what it was. I am just amazed at all this and can't believe she would make this acusation and end our friendship. And was it to take up with him? Or, does she really believe I stoled from her? Any thoughts? I am just beside myself with shock and disbelief. She always was alittle out there but I thought she and I had respect for one another and she knew better than to think of me as a theif. I am very hurt. Could she have wanted him bad enough to bad mouth me and acuse me to get him? Too weird.