why i miss those people? who left me?

June 24, 2009 3:55am CST
for my experience my mom left me when i was 18years old. she died cause by an asthma.that was very loneliest to me.... my boyfriend is there to comfort me..that's why i am happy for him,,and i was inlove for 3 years..but i can't expect what is happening for us...because he left me, unexpected!! that's why it was painful to me..
4 responses
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
I'm sorry to hear this thoughts from you. Its not easy to be left by someone specially you love most. Also your bf , where he going ? It is so sad to hear that. Have faith in God and He will show you the way to happiness. Go on with friends and keep living o that you can find your wish who he is.
27 Jun 09
thank you for the advice.. im really2x sad for this time:( i hope you must pray for me:(
@JamieRose (168)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Hi mayjes. You miss those people because they became a part of you.. and I believe they will always stay with you. Its part of life, being hurt. These happenings are the main reasons why we grow. These wounds will pass my dear. Don't worry. There's always the rainbow after the rain. You will get through this. Its important if you have a support system with you, having your friends/other relatives to just hear you when you're sad. For the guy who left you, if he doesn't love you, let him go. You can't force anything to stay. Let him realize that you're the right person for him. If he doesn't realize that, then he's not worth it. You deserve to be happy.. and I know you will be :)
@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
It is pain that we learned. It is pain that we realized. Missing someone in our life is normal to us because once we are with the person. The moments and time you spend in each other is unforgettable for lifetime. There will be time we want to be together with the person again so we are missing them. It was once part of our daily life and the absence of the person will make us sad and lonely. Keep yourself busy so that you can vent your time and don't have enough time to think of the person.
• India
24 Jun 09
Im really sorry for you. You miss these people because you loved them so much...... In life, there comes such situations where one must stay strong and try to pull through. If your boyfriend didn't want to be with you when you needed him, maybe he isn't the one..... You need to stop thinking you are lonely, you are not. You have your friends and family. Turn to them for comfort. Put your mind off your past relationship for some time. Im sure you'll get over it. Just know that there's no wound that time cant heal. Who knows, maybe you'll find someone better. Who cares for you, and who'll be there with you..... Just wait