i didnt know where to post this at......

United States
June 24, 2009 3:06pm CST
can any one help me on this question? is it okay 2 have mixed feelings 4 some 1 other then ur man? see i love my man we been 2gether for 4 yrs and we do have a son together but things r not going well we always fighting we say mean things to each other......... i jus don't know wat to do but i lso have mixed feelings 4 some1...... i have neva cheated on ne one n i don't pln to either..........wat should i do?
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• Canada
27 Jun 09
have you tried talking to him? I know it's a bit cliched but you might want to tell him how you feel and ask if he would like to do something to make you feel better. Some therapists (like Sue Johansen) would tell you to ask him to act out a fantasy of yours. I say ask if he'll spend a day with you shopping and make him promise to enjoy it. You'd be surprised how much closer you'd get after running around a mall in the middle of summer!
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• United States
30 Jun 09
i tried talking to my hubby about how i'm feeling but he don't like to sit and talk bout his feelings so there's no point of trying to talk with him........ i mean we do spend time but like that.......... we always fighting.......... in my heart i feel like moving back to pa but it's hard to leave a 4 yrs relationship on top of all that we have a son 2gether so still i don't know wat to do......