How much do looks matter when falling in love?
• United States
3 Jul 09
I don't think a persons looks matter when it comes to love. I'm not saying looks aren't a plus, but if you're truly in love with someone you should love them for how they are, not how they look. Both of the girls I fell in love with were beautiful, but I know their looks weren't the reason I fell for them
28 Jun 09
No looks do not matter totally for me it is partial, but inner qualities are more important to lead a lovely and married relationship. I do agree that people will first go for looks but as soon as they know about the character/inner look of the individual then people quit and breaks the relationship.
27 Jun 09
What a funny question! Before falling in love. As if you are falling willingly. No, my friend, when you fall, it is always spontaneously. So, the looks don't come in your way when you fall in love with someone. To me, outer qualities do not matter much. I give consideration to a person's inner qualities.
27 Jun 09
I not so focused on outer looks to a man . I fall in love to a man to how he appreciate , treat me and care for me. That what makes me fall in love to him. I will look to his attitude or behaviour if it can attract me or not. And also his vices I will check his vices. I'm not in favor to those who are fun of drinking and happy go lucky to anywhere. I like to have a man of being family oriented and loving person too.
26 Jun 09
Not neccesary. I still prefer the inner qualities in that person. That's how, i got to fall in love with my darling, now is my hubby. I think, inner qualities is more important than outer qualities. A person without any good inner qualities, i think it's not worth to be married and stayed together forever. When a person with outer qualities, but don't have any inner qualities, he or she surely will not give you any peace of mind, when you married to that person. That's what we always read and heard about, in our daily life...
26 Jun 09
Well for me, looks have less important, I give more value to the nature. Nature of the person whom you love should be good and he/she should value your feelings. Looks are for sometime, for example if you looks are good at the age of 25, it will not be the same after age of 55, but your nature will be always the same no matter what is your age. So in long term nature is more important than looks. And if your nature is good, you will be adorable to all and looks will take the second place. Just my views.
26 Jun 09
Yes looks matters a lot for falling in love with someone. at present the situation which is going on in case of love is that "Love is a time pass" . So for passing time everyone looks for a good person with lots of money and have a good personality. So accroding to me looks matters a lot.