why

United States
June 29, 2009 9:34am CST
why does a couple a have to fight why does things not go fifty fifty in a relationship when you get to gather with some one you say you love should you not treat that person as if they were your best friend ????????????????
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
having fight,arguments in a relationship is a normal thing..it doesn't mean that, a perfect relationship doesn't suffer any trials.sometimes after an argument,some couple find it more romantic when they say sorry to each other =p
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• United States
29 Jun 09
I think opposites attract so each person has a different personaliy, there's usually ( I think) one that has A stronger personality, so it's sometimes difficult to always agree on everything, plus time spent together Mellows things out makes it kinda just flow smoother. If your lucky enough to find true love it's all worth it.
• Canada
18 Aug 09
My husband and I talked about that a lot before we got married. We wanted a 50 50 relationship, and to be best friends with anyone we'd marry. I think that things go wrong in marriages, because a lot of couples just don't talk the way we do. We even went to see a marriage councellor to make sure that we were doing things right. :)
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
19 Aug 09
Hi, Before Married Everything is beautiful, they are perfect match, every promises seems agreeable and possible...bed of roses - awaiting :) Both of them become very considerate for each other, very thoughtful! After Married Everything seems wrong, look like we have married the wrong twins. Have different opinions, can't share equally, start blaming each other. This is a subject that has to be studied and do research...-sigh- All the best!