how will you know if your bf is gay?
By cainam
@cainam (493)
Philippines
June 30, 2009 12:08am CST
my friend had a boyfriend who turns out to be gay. that answers all the questions she has in her mind when they were still together such as why is he so cold to her and why does she feels that something's different with him.. he knew that he was gay after they broke up. my friend is trying to win him back that's why the guy was forced to tell the truth.. my friend all the while thought that she was his 2nd girlfriend but it turned out that he also had 2 boyfriends before her. that makes my friend to be fifth on his list.. the guy just wanted to have children that's why he has to have a girlfriend. i just pitty my friend coz the man she gave her self into is a gay. it's really hard to imagine how hard is it for her to take what happened to her. she really hates the guy.
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3 responses
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
1 Jul 09
Here are some very glaring signs that your guy is gay:
1. the guy is little too interested in the color of your lipstick, your make up, your shoes, maybe even your lingerie.
2. He volunteers to fix your hair, giving lame reasons like, he wants a beautiful lady beside him.
3. he reacts to guys passing by - and you noticed this but you rationalize that he just has good taste, nothing wrong with a guy openly beaming at the sight of a hunk. You do the same thing anyway.
4. he'll never touch you unless he's under the influence - and you blame yourself for not being so attractive to get him interested when he's sober
If you're in a relationship with this kind of guy you wouldn't realize that he is gay even when all signs point towards his being gay, until you are ready to let him go. This is when you start to comprehend why he seemed so odd.
@mama_bear (1118)
• Canada
30 Jun 09
the funny thing is if i had a boyfriend and he turned out to be gay he would tell me, i am just one of those people that folks tell the most unbelievable things to because i am not reactive, and i don't easily freak out. i think that when you enter into a relationship with someone there should be clear rules and guidlines. give someone all the info that they will need to consider before being with you, and if you suspect that your sexuality is ambiguous, then this needs to be addressed, at least give someone a chance to think about it, so that if they accept this and still want to be with you then that is cool. i don't like the shady unfairness of relationships, that is why i am single for now, i just cannot deal with the mess and drama, he should have just told the truth and let her decide what she wanted to do having all the facts, what a tool.
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
30 Jun 09
I am sorry for your friend. I think that guy is really bad. If he did not know himself that he likes boys, we can understand that. But from the story that you are telling, he did know that himself likes boys and he still get close to your friend, that's why he should not do that. BAD 
. Tell your friend to forget about him, he don't deserve your friend to remmeber him.
. Tell your friend to forget about him, he don't deserve your friend to remmeber him.