How many girlsfriends or boyfriends did you have before marriage?
July 1, 2009 6:05pm CST
In this modern times, people don t care how many relations thay have before marriage, they say that this is good to got experience, and must know a good partner very good before marriage. Sometimes people after 1 year want to marry, others really don t like each other. Is good or wrong to have may relations before marriage.
1 Jul 09
I have had 3 longterm relationships before my marriage. I am 32 and I got married this year. My husband has had other girlfriends before we met, and I am happy that we have both got some experience. The longest relationship that I had before I got married lasted 5 years, and I have learned a lot from that relationship. I have made some mistakes and I have learned from them. The relationships with my ex-boyfriends have taught me things about myself, I know how I react in certain situations and that knowledge makes it easier for me to avoid the same situations with my husband. My husband sometimes says that he wish that we had met 15 or 20 years ago instead of last year. I don't agree. I think it is very good that we have both got some experience, because that experience is useful for us. I have a friend who doesn't believe in experience, and she thinks it is best to have no relationships before marriage. She hasn't known any other men, before she married her husband and she is very happy that way. I think that is fine. Personally I am happy that I have had other relationships before I married, but everyone has to do what is right for them.
11 Jul 09
I am 24 and haven't got married yet but committed and he is my first love and will marry him next year. I do not like having multiple realtionships. I have grown up in a family where we give respect to relationships and marriage. If we marry one person have to live with him for whole life, most of the Indians have same mentality, ofcourse there are other few people who go for multiple relations if the husband harrases her for Dowry or other reasons.