How do you keep your love fresh?

China
July 2, 2009 10:11am CST
Many lovers feel tired of their relationships and want some ways to improve love. I have been in love with my BF for two years.I know it's not a very long time.But I think it's a little boring now and we don't have something special during the life. I want some changes. Do you know how to keep a love fresh?
8 responses
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
I can't explain how but I always say i love her everyday. We're almost 4 years together but I never get tired of loving her,because I really really love her so much. We try something new in our relationship, like planning to go somewhere or some place we haven't seen yet. Try to eat a one whole of family pizza. Every christmas we used to go to studio to take our christmas photo. We are happy to be with each other and everyday is special and not boring.
@MegDM123 (145)
• United States
2 Jul 09
MMMMM - isn't it amazing how it makes you feel to hear "I Love You"?
• China
2 Jul 09
Enjoy and cherish your love. Have a nice day,you and your lover.^_^
@MegDM123 (145)
• United States
2 Jul 09
Well, one way me and my high-school sweatheart of 13 years keep our love fresh is by creating and celebrating traditions together. For example, we go to the same hotel on the same beach and go to the same amazing restaurant once a year. We go Thursday - Sunday the weekend right before teachers have to go back to start the next school year! We have done this now for five summers and it is something I look forward to each summer! Another tradition we keep is going to the Melting Pot for Valentine's Day. This makes it stress free for both of us when Valentine's Day comes up because we both know what we are getting the other and it makes it sweeter each year as we are able to count on two hands how many times we have gone! Think about small little things you can celebrate with your significant other and try to celebrate it each year. Memories are one thing that can never be taken away, so make sure they are as sweet as possible!
• China
2 Jul 09
Thank you! We are trying to create and remember every sweet moment.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
3 Aug 09
i don't think that both of you are really tired because i believed that your love for each is true... maybe both of you are so familiar already with each others personality that both of you won't need to adjust... try to find unique ways that both of you didn't tried before... put color into your lives... don't let the black shadows empower the beauty of love...
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
Well seeing each other everyday makes your love boring but for me for not seeing your love one BF in just an hours makes me feel ecxited to see him again.....why not try it not seeing each other for 12 hours makes more exciting..
• India
3 Jul 09
according to me true love will never go tired.daily we have to take decisions and try to improve our life.small fights will make refresheness and gives a heartly enjoyment
@darksorrow (4671)
• Bangladesh
3 Jul 09
Hmmmm. My love story is not that old like you...mine started since last march. And i don't know if this will help but do something which surprises him and everything will happen after that.
@cher913 (25891)
• Canada
2 Jul 09
hubby and i have been married for 21 years and we do a lot together. we may not have a lot of the same interests, but we spend time on what both like. we send each other an free ecard every day. we go on dates, stuff like that.
@jules67 (2790)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
Being constantly together can sometimes make your relationship boring. It is good once in while to be apart from each other. By then, you would be missing each other and try to catch up on each other's life. Always make every day a new day. Imagine that it is your first date, it will help spicing up your relationship. Of course, the bottomline would have to be effort from both parties. Making a relationship work is a conscious effort from both parties.