if you say your friends spouse cheating, would you tell

@chelsit (105)
United States
July 2, 2009 3:02pm CST
My sister told me to keep my mouth shut because it is non of our business but I can't help feeling guilty becuase I saw him with his tongue down some chicks throat, that cannot be explained away, but would she apreciate me telling or or would she feel embarassed and ashamed. So what a dilema I find myself in but I have been thinking what if the shoe was on the other fot I would want sombody to tell me. Am I wrong, or am I right?
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@jojhane (37)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
YES I would definitely tell my friend and advice to talk with with her wife or husband and settle for the betterment of their relationship
@OConnell87 (1046)
2 Jul 09
i think its worse if you don't tell this person and then she finds out that you knew the whole time she would feel a fool because she didn't have a clue she was being cheated on but people around her did know,
• United States
2 Jul 09
I would not want my friend to tell me such news. I would want to find out for myself. So that being said try not to tell your friend. bad news from any one may be taken the wrong way. Some woman in so call love will not remain your friend after this.
• India
2 Jul 09
i thnk i would definitely let my friend know about it. if not today, my friend will come to know about it eventually, so the sooner the better.
@dodo19 (32553)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
2 Jul 09
If it's a good friend, then I'd probably tell this friend about their cheating spouse. It would be difficult, that's for sure, but I would tell my friend, nonetheless. It's the right to do, in my opinion. Whether they believe it or not, well, that's completely up to them, but at least I'll know that I've told them the truth.
@shebee28 (230)
• United States
2 Jul 09
If you was a good friend you would probably tell her, of course it will be upsetting, but she shouldn't waste anymore time on him if he's not faithful, surely she would thank you later.
@angelsmummy (1700)
2 Jul 09
I would tell them put yourself in their position. How would you feel if one of your friends knew that your spouse was cheating on you and didnt tell you?! Dont forget what goes around comes around.. Its your desicion at the end of the day but put yourself in your friends shoes is all Im going to say on the matter. Good luck.