Sorry Everyone I was Gone For a While Because My Ex Had The Phone Disconnected

@dfinster (3535)
United States
July 2, 2009 5:13pm CST
Please don't think I forgot about anyone or blew them off ym husband refused to pa[y the phone bill so I lost my internet for over 3 weeks. That's why I wasn't here I didn't just blow you guys off.
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@adam1980 (517)
2 Jul 09
sorry to hear your ex treate you like this i hope you have got things back up and runing now so you can be here as often as you want
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@dfinster (3535)
• United States
3 Jul 09
Yup, I'm ready to go againa, but the long wait may have cost me another quarter of school, I had everything all ready except for a $220 check they needed and after the internet was shut off I didn't even have a way to contact them and now they sent it to collections when they knew I was going to send it to them the day after I talked to them the last time but then it was too late and everything I used he cancelled.
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@Polly1 (12649)
• United States
2 Jul 09
That dirty rotten dog, you want your friends here to get up a possie and take care of your light work for you. Your friends know that sometimes you just can't be here, we all have lives and understand that stuff happens. I'm am just sorry that the stuff happening with you is a bunch of crap. Take care and I hope it gets better quick.
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@dfinster (3535)
• United States
3 Jul 09
Thanks for the offer of the possie, but with what has all happened I'm so mad I could take him myself ten times over,although I made need some advice, LOL! Doing everything on my own that I possibly can to make things better, geuss I just need time. Thanks for always being there. Now I just need to come up with some extra ways to make money to support myself cuz I got into an apartment but may not have $450 for next month's rent. Any idea, pass them along if you want. Thanks again Polly, love ya for all your support.
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@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
3 Jul 09
well didn't he use the phone too? how come he didn't want to pay? if he is charged more than he should pay, he supposed to pay, make a complaint, then find another company. he might even get his money back if it's a good company.
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@dfinster (3535)
• United States
3 Jul 09
We used toeach have a cell phone on the same plan but when he filed he cancelled mine and then said he wouldn't pay the landline because he didn't used it because he had his own cell phone. JERK!
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@carolscash (9500)
• United States
3 Jul 09
Sorry to hear that. He must be a jerk to allow the phone to be shut off. I hate men who think that they can punish us by not paying the basic utilities. Well, at least you have it on and can join us again here.
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@dfinster (3535)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I have my own place now that he paid for with maintainence and we're going back again to have my maintainance increased because I can't live on $00 a month and I'm not even getting 220 every 2 weeks, it's like 180.
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@GardenGerty (99193)
• United States
2 Jul 09
So how are things going now? Is anything getting any better? Did you get your move? Keep us posted on how things are going. I was worried about you.
@dfinster (3535)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I moved and will fill everybody in I got a really nice place, my husband disconnecting the phone and internet definately screwed me out of another quarter of school. Keep you posted though.
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@fwidman (11515)
• United States
2 Jul 09
Welcome back Three weeks without internet? I'd go crazy. Crazier than I already am
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@dfinster (3535)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I was definately going crazy, LOL!
@anniepa (27236)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I'm so sorry to read this! You must have gone crazy, I know I would without a phone or internet so three weeks. I was going to say you should disconnect him but since you referred to him as your ex you apparently already did! Annie
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@dfinster (3535)
• United States
5 Jul 09
lol, lol, lol!
@mzz663 (2775)
• United States
15 Jul 09
I was in a similar situation when my ex and I split, no phone, no internet, that's when I realized just how addicted to the internet I was. I'm not on it near as much as I used to be. It is a hard thing to do, at first I found myself at friends houses begging to use their computers and now I can go without it now whenever without missing it so much. Online friends do help us get through rough times and some of them have no idea just how much.
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
oh, men! il die if i had my internet disconnected..
@Thoroughrob (11750)
• United States
8 Jul 09
Glad you are back. I bet you did not know what to do with yourself in that time. Good to see that things are ok.