Do you follow other's step, or you want a difference?

@zearah (5289)
Philippines
July 2, 2009 8:38pm CST
There are times I want to follow the steps of others, when I found it interesting. But in many times I want to be unique. How about you? You'd rather be unique? Why?
6 responses
@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
usually i do not follow anybody, but i use them as a guide... for example i saw something nice in what other people are doing, and i think it will help me in some way or another, then i use it as a guide...i follow some and then give my personal touch of it...and most of the time i get these guides from my mom and from some elders in our church... and so by doing that it will become unique...in a way!
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
Yes! That's the exact term "guide". It's good to use a guide to create a new one. And of course the fulfillment is best if you're the one who guide. Thank you for being my guide! Happy mylotting!
@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
and its a good feeling, knowing that we are being a guide to someone!
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
Yeah, I hope I'll be a guide too, soon. Whether a "tour guide" as what you've said in one of you comment to my response in your topic started, or guide in any way! Happy mylotting!
• Philippines
23 Jul 09
At first, of course I want to follow other's step. I like to have a business in the future, but first I need to have a passive income. OF course in order to attain all of these you have to have a leverage or material that will help you in your learning experience. I read books about finance, business, money , inspiring books and I attend seminars , I listen to mentors, I want to be coachable.If I want to be a successful business woman someday, I have to practice to be like them, so I follow their step until I have found my own formula. If i already did the step I am sure I can be that somebody in the future. It really depends on what you want and what you decide. it is imporatnt to know what you want and th process of doing is next.
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
23 Jul 09
That's good!
@busky5 (3166)
• Thailand
14 Jul 09
For me, i want to do different from others if being a business, i think if you have create a new business which differental from others, you will success, less racing.But if being whatever i am not good doing, i just learn add from others who experts more than me.
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
Yes that's right! Be unique as much as possible same as here in mylot discussion right, don't copy the prior topic or post or else your account be decreased because of deletion of that copied post, he he he.It's just a near example, okay!
@shakil8 (407)
• India
3 Jul 09
well not actually......i did't follows any one......because i'm my favorite......... what i feel is whatever you do to be like others it means that it you are making fools of your self..........just be natural & stay what you are.....
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
Hmmmmm, so you're exceptionally unique! Keep it up. It's a sign of courage and determination. To stand on your own feet and step ahead! Very well, that characteristic really is great!Go for it!
• Malaysia
3 Jul 09
Well, I do follow some successful person steps but with my own way. Do you get it? I mean, you can't follow them 100% right. Maybe their steps isn't working for you and you might want to adjust a little about that.
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
Yeah, as what is being mentioned above by our fellow (almost sounds the same with your username), "guide" . Let others be your guide, that's your point, I guess. And make a unique result out of this. Happy mylotting!
@suryacool (106)
• India
3 Jul 09
All of us try to be different from others, but very few actually do differently. I always want to make a difference whatever i do, wherever i go. Walking on paths of accepted success is not a winners choice. So, dare to do different things. all the best
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
Yes! Feel free in everything you do. You may sometimes follow but its best when you're rather being followed. Go start and make new provided you won't step others down.