I like her love her

India
July 3, 2009 12:41pm CST
hey friends please help me out here There is a girl whom i see everyday passing by when am going to my class and she is coming from her tution . I just cant get her ou of my mind even though i don't really know her . I had never thought that i would be liking someone so much . I have been in this position before and never proposed anyone till date. But i feel very different about this girl. We don't have any common source..nothing As i feel so much for her so that's why i so much afraid of the negative response from her. I don't want to lose her. Please help me how can i approach her, talk to her, tell her, make her mine? Honestly she means so much to me.
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6 responses
• India
3 Jul 09
My friend don't become nervous in front of her, because girls don't care about nervous people. Just go to her with full confidence and ask her about her tuition. This can be your first approach to wards her. Just tell her one of your friend wants to join her tuition and you have come on behalf of him to know whether the teacher is teaching well or not. Next step-- As you see her everyday you can give her a smile after that day, but remember don't talk to her for around 5 to 6 days other wise she will not care about you. Next step-- After 6 day just go to her and ask her how is your tuition going on and talk about her studies, and walk with her for some distance and tell her bye... Next step-- Make friend ship with her and ask her her name and ask about her liking and disliking... Next step-- continue talking with her for next 10 days and build up friendship. Next step-- After that disappear for 3 to 4 days or change your rout so that she can't see you. Next step-- After 4 days when she again see you she will ask "where have you been?" you say,"here" and she will say,"why are not you coming". You will say,"avoiding you". she:"why?" You:"When ever i see you some thing happen inside my heart so i was trying to control it for last 4 days and i could not." It is the first step where you get a step to say "I love you" and it is your choice that how you say it.. I give you the steps, you try it or not it depends on you. I think it is the best way for you by which you can say your feelings.....
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• China
4 Jul 09
I think you are very good at chasing girls.lol Arent you?
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@MissTina (124)
• United States
4 Jul 09
No offense, but if a guy did this to me I simply would not trust him. I would know that clearly he was following a certain game plan which would make me feel that he is a player, or user. I just has too much work into it that is just not natural. Some gals really like the old natural smile then say hello and see where it goes from there. If you have to count the days between your steps it makes it awkward. I also would not recommend telling a girl you just started talking to that you love her. That will make her think one of two things, that you are a player and just say it, or that you are creepy and a stalker. Just take time to get to know her, you can't love her really until you know who she is inside anyways.
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• United States
4 Jul 09
Just be your self and I pray you and this girl will become something
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@soulgurl (153)
• Malaysia
4 Jul 09
Hi ankit_620,From a girl's point of view, I really think you should take it slow and easy..pouncing on her would make her run 1000 miles away from you. And declaring your love to her in just 10 days would make her run twice as far and fast as well. She might get the idea that you are a stalker or a freak. A little suggestion though, go up to her and make small talk about her tuition, be honest (as suggested by one of the mylotters) and stay calm. That would make things easier for you to approach her the next time. Its ok to be nervous, some girls find that cute! Good Luck.
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@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
4 Jul 09
Hello, I am also a girl, and i can see the first responded was really great one, but it will not work for me lolz... well, too fast is too scare to talk to. If you see her then you should get to know more about her, such as what class she in and how and what kind of friends she has. You should some of her friends and then you will get to know her easily. Another thing, you just have to do accident run into her and then talk to her... make friend to her first and then relationship.
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@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
4 Jul 09
Dont be afraid to make the first move.If you dont,you'll never know how she thinks of you.I want to give you some advice if you dont mind.First of all,you should respect her no matter how she reacts.You should be patient.If you really like her love her and would like to spend the rest of your life with her,take your time,be confident,trust yourself and believe that you can win her heart with your true love.Good luck.
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@MissTina (124)
• United States
4 Jul 09
You say that you see her everyday, so one day when you are passing her why don't you just smile and say hello? See if she responds in a kind I am not too busy kind of way. She may not have time to talk right then because she may be going to another class. If she says hello but keeps walking then maybe you should try to see if you can get to know people that she knows. If she says hello and stalls a bit then ask about her class and comment that you notice you pass everyday and yet don't really know each other. Ask if you could get coffee together to talk about classes and maybe get to know each other. Don't come on too strong just come on as a friendly guy on campus looking to meet more people. If you already know friends of her then suggest that you all do a group activity so you can see how she interacts with her friends and get to know more of who she really is. Don't be too nervous because that will make a girl loose interest in you. She likes to be able to feel comfortable and at ease with new people. Just make sure you don't come on too strong and try to befriend her before expressing that you are really feeling as though you love her.
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