Is so easy to say "I LOVE YOU!",Why we don t say this words when we must tosay

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
July 8, 2009 8:28am CST
Are so simple words, so easy to say it. In almost all languages, are 2 or 3 words, who don t make us silly if we used it. Do you think that we will be not proud and strong if we use and say this words? I ask myself all the time...why i don t use this words? i use, but not so much as i want, or so much as i can. We use words every day, a lot of words, who really are empty, don t have nothing inside, but who make us to hate, to cry, to laugh...but what words we must to use to say what we feel? What reasons we have don t use this wonderful words? We forgot something....THAT SOMETIMES WE WILL REMEMBER ABOUT THIS WORDS TO LATE, WHEN PEOPLE WHO MUST TO HEAR OUR WORDS...ARE NOT THERE...GOD WILL NEVER FORGIVE US IF WE DON T Wake UP, IF WE DON T OPEN OUR HEARTS, IF WE DON T REMEMBER THAT WE MUST USE THIS SIMPLE WORDS..I LOVE YOU!
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• United States
8 Jul 09
if you think back to the movie the matrix you will ( probobly) remember when love was talked about. the guy said love is just a word, its the meaing and the fealing or emotion it implies. i think love is great but you are correct we do not say it enough. most of the time we are not ready because we are being pressed to saying it. i say it to my wife every day but before that i didnt say it untill i ment it.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
Your wife is a lucky woman...to hear this words from who you love is the great things in this world...
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
8 Jul 09
It's not difficult for me. I like telling the people I love that I do. I agree that it's important to do so before it's to late. Things happen very quickily and life passes in moments. Great discussion!
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
Hi, you know how much we can regret if don t say "i love you" when we can?
@xredburn (97)
• Portugal
8 Jul 09
You MUST say I love you on the first contact. If the person you are going to tell that loves you back The the person wants to hear that from you as soon as possible
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
yes, to say this words is so nice, of course if you really feel it
@jaisundar (215)
8 Jul 09
Yes, it is ofcourse difficult to say i love you to someone. Later we may also feel we had missed an opportunity.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
if we can we must say now, in this sec..because never know what will be
• United States
8 Jul 09
That is so true to some is a little dificult to say I love you. I try to say I love you every single times that I might have a chance. I may use other words or actually do things but at the end I telling that person that I love her or him. So far I can't say I regreat to not let someone know that I care and love that person. Actually when my grandpa pastaway I did regreat not been able to be there with him till the last minute but I know that he alway knew that I loved him. He was more than a grandpa he was also my friend and father when my dad was not around. I know that he will alway have a special place in my heart even if he is not alive.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
Time is sometimes what we need to make people know that we love them
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
always say i love you. everytime you feel it .. dont keep to yourself. always be vocal about it. because you may not know when you will be able to say it last. so everytime you get a chance.. do say it. thats my motto. of course you are not supposed to say it if you dont mean it.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
this words can make us and all world better, but we are so blind...we need to say and feel of course
@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
8 Jul 09
In my own family, we do not always express our love in words, we seldom say "I love you" to others, including the family members. But, we do always show our appreciation. I always say I LOVE YOU to my husband. I don't think saying I LOVE YOU will make us look weaker, I just think that whenever we feel the LOVE and we feel like saying it, just say it out. I also tell my son how much I love him, it's really great to be in love and love others. hence we need to let others know too.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
Hi, we must never forget to use this words...if we feel of course, no shame or afraid, this words make us feel better
@faisai (1138)
• Hong Kong
8 Jul 09
These words are easy to say but if we are saying them too easily, they will not be carrying the weight they are supposed to carry. For me, when I say I love you, I do mean it by heart and by that I mean I am willing to sacrifice everything for the one I am saying those words to. For me, these words are meant to be a promise... a life long promise. I would definitely make sure that when I am saying those words, that they are carrying the weight I intend them to.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
this words must to be sayed only if we really feel
@bingchen (1119)
• China
9 Jul 09
real love could only express to say i love you,the three words that is not easy to say.i have experience for it,especially in our country people expression to love is very implicative,although our culture influnce from the westen culture at present,let me see the relation between lovers.but if sombody love me,he could not say these words,he knowed when he say "i love you",this mean he must give me promises of all of my ife.he could not hope to hurt me,so he is not easy to say this word,because of his words,let me waiting for him.in fact,we have acquaintance for eight months,we love for each other,but could not say this words,he kmowed his behaviour have hurt me and could not hope this give me unluky and could not live together with him.until i left him for several days,he talk to me "i love you" from the phone,i know what he say is true,let me know,there is not easy to say this words.
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@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
I love you too, you are very right, this words can change our life, can make us to make people what we think, what we have in souls....but in same time, when we say this words somebody who don t deserve our words, what will be? Any way, who say this words, not matter what will feel good and never regret that don t say what he or she feel.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
yes...just 3 words can change ours lifes...
@Anandhh (389)
• India
8 Jul 09
hehe!!good question dude!! its difficult thing to propose to somebody.....whom u really love...its only cuz!!you think that if they dont accept ur love you feel so bad!!you should not be like that.....you should be bold while you propose to a girl/boy...you should have a clear eye to eye contact....if they dont accept ur love also...no probz!! keep trying....!!Be confident!!never lose hope!!
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
eye to eye contact...this is true too
@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
8 Jul 09
Agree that "I love You" is simple words that hard to utter. Just don't know why... however, I have started to end my phone conversation, with people I love, with "love you" and "take care".. is that a good start?
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
Yes, is a very good start, don t lose any ocassion to say "i love you" don t cost you any money, and people will answer to you with same words...you will see how much good you will feel...of course if you really love that person...
@sikhandi (11)
• United States
8 Jul 09
I totally agree with you, "I Love You" is so sweet and simple that we should say it everyday as much as we can. I guess to say "I love you" means that you recognize that the other person is important to you and that you care and need the other person, maybe our ego is not willing to be submissive. I don't know, but anyways I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
8 Jul 09
Hi, you can see how much easier is to write this words? and to say too? Maybe we need a therapy, to use 10 times in a day this words...maybe we will understand real meaning of this words...i love you!!is not hard