To divorce or not to divorce??

@ahm_raq (165)
Philippines
July 9, 2009 8:25am CST
My hubby and i are married for 7 months now, but are worlds apart after a month of our wedding. We always quarrel and argue over petty things. Sometimes, i wonder if the next following years of our married life will just be the same as we have now. And sometimes it makes me tired already fighting with him. He is now processing my papers so i can follow him to his country, but im really having a second thought. We both know in our hearts that we love each other, but is it enough? What if we don't get along really well? Should we just get divorced?
3 responses
@phayeth (519)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
ur in the adjustment period of ur relationship for being married.. just give it sometime.. and if u love him...u need to take away all the what if's that u have.. so that ur relationship will work..
• United States
9 Jul 09
i have been married for 11 years and i must say at first things where not so great because we fought over petty things as well it's the fact that it's new to you both so you fight about the petty things if you both love each other and want to make it work then it can it's up to the both of you , i think the best thing you can do is talk to him about how you feel and then it may help you out . i mean as long as you are honest with him and yourself things will turn out just fine .
@sexyposh (575)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
Love can never be consistent unless if there is willingness... I guess if your willed enough to continue your relationship then don't divorce him... Marriage is not all about love alone, its a commitment to be with each other no matter what. Really, everything is up to you. Depends on your conviction.. If you think there is a little spec of love left then gift yourselves another chance..