Give or take?
July 10, 2009 9:13am CST
In a relationship, friendship, community, association and circle so on and so forth... there should always be the give and take. Of these 2 which 1 make you happier, you're the giver or receiver? Why?
24 Aug 09
Of course in friendship it doesnt matter if you are the one who give or receive or take. True friendship doesn't count what we give, we give it without expecting in return. me, I give everything from my friend. But sometimes its so sad when you had given everything for them and if you need them they are not around. I experience it many times, andit is hurtful, but I still don't change the way I treat them. It is their conscience they will be fighting just in case I need help and they are not there for me.
11 Jul 09
Well, i think nobody out here is equiped with all resources, so one has to be a taker to some degree. But, by nature, i am a giver. I love helping people, try the best way to help them without damaging others` interests.. Even if i am unable to offer economic help, i try to at least give people a smile with my talks. That is always blissful. Happy Mylotting!!
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10 Jul 09
Give or take......... Hummm, why can't both people learn to do both give and recieve. It wouldn't be fair for one to be doing all the giving, all of the time. In my relationship I feel as though I am the giver but he also feels like he is the giver even though he knows deep down inside that he is the taker. Personally speaking I truly believe that the relationship will become a more balanced union if both people decides to do both give and take. Happy mylot. Thanks for posting..........Have a great weekend!
10 Jul 09
Hi there, well as the saying goes its better to give than to receive. So i am more on giving its a great feeling when i give something even its just small things. Although i am happy that i also receive things, i feel great when i give. Till here, i hope i can make sense here Keep on writing good discussion zearah and happy mylotting
10 Jul 09
I'm happy when I receive gift from my boyfriend. But it's happier to see if he liked the stuff that I have given to him. By then tho, I think that i'm more of a giver than a receiver. Even if I don't have much to give to him (materially), I try to make an effort to make that gift special for him.
10 Jul 09
hi.. i just remember someone tell me that 'you can give without loving but you can't never love without giving' so if you're love someone you will need to give anything you can, and i believe if you're giving anything to make someone happy you will receive something that will make you happier.. and would you like to be my friend? i'm from indonesia and would you please to visit my blog : http://www.hawafa.blogspot.com please leave a comment in my blog.. thanks..