Where all funny discussions from here go ? All is so changed!!
By icesmile
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
July 11, 2009 9:56am CST
Before a time, people like to enjoy and have fun, of course in good sense limits, but now i saw just very serious discussions, or debating with hard words, injury, i think that my English will be better soon in bad words, i take good lesson in speaking with hard words.
What happened? Forgot people to respect each other, and want just to fight and humiliated each other or what?
I like nice, funny discussions who can make us to forgot about a hard work day, we are here to socialize, to make new friends, not to use injury.
I want to say that i can t answer in a discussion, because i am afraid that somebody will humiliate me, or use hard words.
What is this?Any way, i really don t know hard and bad words, i can t face with this kind of discussion..you can say to me that you send me to hell...of course with ENGLISH EXPRESION, WHO I REALLY DON T KNOW....AND I WILL ANSWER TO YOU THAT I THANK YOU A LOT.
People, i want funny , nice, polite discussions.
Is possible?
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7 responses
@alexandra777 (643)
• Philippines
11 Jul 09
Hi ice! That is exactly how i feel this past few days. It's sad, all these things happening in mylot... I can't even find the right words to say... those discussions that are so full of hatred, disrespect, humiliation... i just felt that i need to stay silent while reading everything and i mean everything... where has the clean fun gone? 
I chose not to say anything because i just did not know what to say or rather, i do not know how to answer if those negative words were directed at me. I am already trying very very hard to think and write in English here and to argue and exchange hurtful words are not in "my vocabulary".
I am so sad... please cheer me up? 
I chose not to say anything because i just did not know what to say or rather, i do not know how to answer if those negative words were directed at me. I am already trying very very hard to think and write in English here and to argue and exchange hurtful words are not in "my vocabulary".
I am so sad... please cheer me up? 2 people like this
@alexandra777 (643)
• Philippines
11 Jul 09
Oh, well... i think i'll just contend myself with my self-limited English vocabulary. That way, i'll just bit my tongue (my fingers actually) so to keep me from blurting (typing) out in anger when my temper is tested! I just want to make friends here, not enemies... 
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@prashanthalva (2272)
• India
11 Jul 09
I Actually didnt Know Mylot was Fun... Actually i Realised The Need to Contribute in Making People Smile If Not Laugh A Couple of weeks Back ........ Havent you Gone through the Discussions Started By Me ..... LoL ....... If You Havent You Surely Have Missed SomeThing .........
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@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
Hello icesmile,
I just logged in after two days time. The first discussion made me sad - someone started a discussion about myLot will stop paying us soon. The second discussion was about myLot have yet to update the earnings. The third discussion was about to believe or not all the negative discussions here. Recently I happened to come across some discussions which used harsh words and most members fought each other using rude words. I was dumbfounded. It used to be friendly and warm environment here... As for me, I don't like to be in a controversial topics and I prefer light topics or daily life discussions. I lead a busy life as a working woman and mother of a very active son. I am here for fun and getting to know more wonderful people whom I met a lot when I first started and of course, as a bonus ....the earnings too.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
12 Jul 09
Hi, you come now, but i , 2 days i was crazy, i think that all is now is normal to be here...i saw so much hate and bad words, and people argue for nothing, i really don t understand, seems that somebody really want to make people here fight and insult each other. i am sick, maybe Devil come for few days here...i hope that he will go soon...
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
11 Jul 09
I'm sure that many others can 'feel' what you are feeling too Ice just like I can. It's been a bad week but it's only a phase I'm sure. Things will get back to how they should be again really soon. Just like offline things come in cycles, bad and good, but when things go down they always get back up again eventually.
Hang on in there the fun will return 
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
11 Jul 09
Hi Diana, i want to say, that i enter yesterday, and a day before, and i saw few so bad and hard discussion...and just i close mylot. I were really shocked to see how people offence each other..of course that maybe is good for me that i don t understand all this injury, but really i were sick.
I want just talk, find new nice and polite people, learn more English, and why not to share mt life experience with others. Nothing more...
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
12 Jul 09
hello ice. we are here to have fun, learn more about people, and earn. so we expect people to be courteous, and just go straight to the point and discuss things without saying humiliating words. am sure everybody would love to read something that is said in the polite manner. and with some sense of humour. 
. its very possible. ann
. its very possible. ann1 person likes this
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
13 Jul 09
thank you both. the golden rule is always there .. do unto others what you want to be done unto you. being polite would reap a good harvest. cheers. ann
cheers. ann
@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 09
icesmile.. I totally agree with you. Nowadays, you seldom see people with funny gesture anymore. We even have people who is so serious that they would want to win at all time. Somehow, we have a word to describe people like this by "kiasu". Wish we can have more joy, comfort, funny and nice friends around too. I think it will be possible if we started to do our part, and let others see we are doing it :)
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
13 Jul 09
Hi ice!
I fully support your views and I would also like to participate in funny and interesting discussions and I would not enter into a argument with any body. I just want to be polite and humble and wish to respect all others. I also do not appreciate nasty or impolite comments.
Very Good Post!
I fully support your views and I would also like to participate in funny and interesting discussions and I would not enter into a argument with any body. I just want to be polite and humble and wish to respect all others. I also do not appreciate nasty or impolite comments.
Very Good Post!