Concerning matters of the heart!

@Citychic (4067)
United States
July 14, 2009 6:21pm CST
Hey friends this is a matter of the heart. Do you usually listen to your own heart and head concerning love or do you listen to what the astrologers are saying? Some of you may take your friend's opinion into consideration or perhaps that of a close family member. So tell me who do you go to when you have a love issue going on? Thanks in advance....... Happy mylot!
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@tarachand (3895)
• India
15 Jul 09
Love is a lovely word.... I think one is the best judge and must listen more to the head and then the heart before making any commitment of any sort, because one's own life and happiness are at stake here - not the astrologers, not the family or the friends - though they could also be affected by the relationship, if it goes forward... As I mentioned in one of your discussions I have been married for 28 years plus to the same woman and am a strong believer in monogamy, so have never faced the issue. However, you could participate in this discussion titled 'Rain and my love (complete)' if you want to... http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1374886.aspx Life's Lovely! Love & Live Life! Live & Let Live!
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
16 Jul 09
Love........... Thanks for sharing the information Tarachand. Right now I'm getting ready to go catch a power nap so perhaps I will look for your discussion rain and my love once i get back. That's wonderful that you've been married for twenty eight years. I myself have been married for 21 years this coming sept. Too often it seems that marriage becomes more about the children and two people wind up living all of their lives together, thinking about trying to keep the family together and forget about theirselves. While I think the children are certainly important I don't want this to be my life. If a man don't want to be with me then he needs to come clean and say what it is that he don't like about the situation. Happy mylot!I can definitely see a serious talk coming up in our futures and it didn't take no astrologer to tell me that, hee hee hee!
@nigarish (70)
• India
15 Jul 09
"basically i use to concern myself as far as my life is concern ....but many itme you can't just rely on yourself for those things you can't get...in those case i share my views with some one elder to me...like my elder friend...my elder sister my brother in law...and rearly with friends.....my father use to say me if you want any suggestion take it from elders....
@AmbiePam (85982)
• United States
14 Jul 09
I don't look to astrologers or psychics when it is a matter of the heart. I use my own feelings, and I listen to what God is telling me, because He certainly cares. Plus, He knows more than I do! And if I am confused, I take counsel with someone who is wiser or more experienced than I am. Perhaps one of my parents, or just a friend.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
uhmmmm... i'm interested into what astrologers are telling us but i don't dwell much of it... i listen to my head first rather than with my heart
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
i listen to my heart and think straight of what to do, i weigh all options and other things involved. i dont listen to what astrologers are saying or read horoscopes. and i dont taky friend's opinion because most of the time, i keep the problems to myself and solve it alone. i have a hard time sharing problems that's why.