How to get my friend to speak to me?advice please

@jhannon (1406)
United States
August 28, 2006 5:31am CST
One day outof the blue she stopped talking to me.Its avery good friends of mine so i care about our friendship..She wont return my emails or phone calls .So i have give up contacting her any ideas?
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• Singapore
7 Jan 07
i think something must have happened to make her stopped communicating with you..isit because of some rumours circulating around? well, if im you, i will send her another email and apologize to her if i'm in the wrong and said that i will never bother her again, but she will always welcome to call me or send me an email when she has find a place in her heart to forgive me
@jithinsb (518)
• India
7 Jan 07
if you like her that much you should actually tell her how much she mean to you and how much you love her...and most of all you should tell her how much you miss her in her absence..and may be there is something that you have done which could have hurt her..apologize if there is any and treasure your friendship if she too is sincere as you!!!
@makeaplay (131)
• Ethiopia
24 Sep 06
I think it is simple ...just leave her alone.....may be she will come back ..
@niksan87 (211)
• Bulgaria
30 Aug 06
buy her a car :)) she will be your best friend ever xaxaxaax
• United States
21 Nov 06
The exact same thing happened to me a couple of months ago, and she was one of the first friends I made at my school. Sometimes people just decide that they are too good for you, but they are wrong. I have learned that even if you think someone is a true friend, sometimes you just never know. The more you grieve, the harder it will be to "get over" your friend...don't let regret overcome you, but do remember the HAPPY times you had with her and treasure them, because even if they are gone, they DID happen. I just wish someone had drilled all of this into my head earlier in my life...
@AskAlly (3625)
• Canada
6 Jan 07
I agree with Astrotink,,,, find a mutual friend that is willing to help you out in this situation
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
28 Aug 06
Write a nice letter, explaining the reasons for the present deadlock. Tell her how much you like. Remind her of good times you both had. Tell her bygones are bygones and start afresh. Assure her that in future there shall not be any room for misunderstanding. Let it be just natural expression without any high funda.
@astrotink (169)
28 Aug 06
have you got a mutual friend that could have possibly told her something that would have upset her? is there anything you know you've done that would have upset her? maybe she has done something she is ashamed off and so is therefore avoiding you? if you cannot find the reason then just move on. Sometimes we just out grow our friends and move on for no reason, only you will know the answers.