can you be in love with two persons at a time?

India
July 15, 2009 1:40pm CST
In some indian films the heroes are in love with two heroines(due to inevitable circumstances always)and these two women accept the hero. Is it possible for you to love two persons at a time?
10 responses
@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
16 Jul 09
i don't think so... well before that also confused me...but i have proven it now, that we really cannot be in love equally with two persons at the same time...there always be one that is greater and you feel more love for them... maybe at first we might mistaken it for love, but actually its not really love...its just a cause of impulse and some circumstances but in the long run, we will realize that we really love the other one more than the other... have a nice day!
• India
16 Jul 09
hmmm, good, and who is that only one lucky guy?
@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
mmmm...of course, non other than my husband!
• India
17 Jul 09
Lucky husband, hehehehehe.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
You really had a great imagination with things my friend.God created us with only one heart,how can we possibly love two person at a time.Maybe we think it is love,that we love both of them,but in reality,we trully love only one and the other one is just an admiration which we mistaken as love also.
• India
15 Jul 09
I admit I have strange imaginations.Nice to know your views jaiho. Who is that only one lucky person?
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
Haven't found him yet my friend,soon to be found (hahaha)
• United States
16 Jul 09
I think that it is possible to think you can be in love with two people but, I believe if it true love it will only be with one.
@nigarish (70)
• India
15 Jul 09
"hellow sir ji how are you these days....moving to your question well i think that i can manage upto 2 girls but it requires some special cirumstances...but seriously i can't move up with 2 forever...love can happen with 2 girls but you can't live up with two girls or women ...in todays date they will kill you....women has a very strong feeling of jelousy with other women and this reason is enough for any men to don't think about any other women...
• India
15 Jul 09
I admire your frank and bold answer. But I have a strong feeling that you can manage much more nigarish. You have the potential hidden in you. I am just helping you to get that skill out now. You can have a great time and share with us your experiences(even with one spouse we are struggling, how are you going to manage, pal-best of luck)
• India
16 Jul 09
i am so sorry sir if i hurt your sentiments but i am not telling that i want to live 2 women or i want 2 get married with 2 women.....i am just simply saying this if a will graped by cetain unexpected circumstances than i have 2 live up with 2 women......but in normal conditions i will personally prefer one girl to live up with.........
• India
16 Jul 09
No dear, you have not hurt my sentiments. Not at all. I thought you would be happy with two women, hehehehehe.
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
15 Jul 09
yes, i love hmmmm... 8 people and 3 cats at the same time :) just different kind of love... but bf-gf/husband-wife kind of love, i can only love one person at a time :)
• India
15 Jul 09
hmm in that case your love list would extend to 100 or even more. I am asking you about bf-gf kinda love only. And I bet you know that well.
• United States
16 Jul 09
lol yeah, that would be only one person at a time... btw, talking about different kinds of love, in Ukrainian there are actually different words for love depending on what kind of love you are talking about. I love that about ukrainian :)
• India
16 Jul 09
Yes, I do understand that. In India love means only that between man and woman, hehehehe.
@UK_Shree (3604)
15 Jul 09
Absolutely not! I do not think there is any way that someone can be in love with two different people at the same time. It just seems like something that I could never do. If you believe you love two people at the same time then how can you even call it love? Hindi films are often so unrealistic anyway
• India
15 Jul 09
Yes, films are for fun. I don't take films seriously in life. It is very hard to define love. It differs from one person to another. It is good to be in love with only one person, I do agree. I also think it is possible to be in love with two persons at a time. this is my opinion.
@UK_Shree (3604)
16 Jul 09
Well yes everyone has the right to their own opinion, and mine is clearly quite different to yours.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
17 Jul 09
yes according to me....love is not only physical, and it may happen that you may like some qualities in one person, and some other qualities in other, so like we have many friends we can love more than one person, but talking about physical, it gives joy with only one whom you like the most, this i believe
• India
17 Jul 09
you are truly amazing and different in some aspects. one thing is sure, you are honest always in your answers and that is why I like them much.
@dozhou (326)
• United States
16 Jul 09
It is not a good topic to me. I don't thinks any wise one would do in this way. Maybe superhero could attract double love, but it also pay double stuff for it, money, time, attention, etc. It does not suit me.
• India
17 Jul 09
if it does not suit you, well your girl would love you more, so be happy.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
16 Jul 09
it's possible but the level of affection is different... you may be in love with someone so much while loving less the other one... :)
• India
16 Jul 09
Yes, thats true elsmarie.
• Pakistan
15 Jul 09
i am still confused about the word love. i am sorry but unfortunately i am not still fallen in love thats why i dont know how to define it exacltly. according to me it depends upon the quality you would like to be in someone to whom you like then may be that the quality is at a time in two persons.
• India
15 Jul 09
I suggest you to go and fall in love first( why we should alone suffer??) Then you can fall with two persons at a time and tell us your experience.hehehehe.
@voldrox (7205)
• India
15 Jul 09
i don't believe in falling in love with two people at the same time, i can never have that, i see myself as a more committed person and under no circumstance can i fall in love with two women at the same time, if i think i have fallen in love with two women at the same time then it is not love, it is something else!
• India
15 Jul 09
Yes, I do agree with you voldrox. But sometimes due to circumstances we may fall for two persons and I think it is quite natural, but it is not good. It will lead to many confusions and spoil the life.It is better to be happy with one relationship.