In your own words, how do you define a "lover"?

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Philippines
July 16, 2009 11:39pm CST
Hi guys! In your own definition, what is a "lover"? Any definition will do. I asked this to my friend, and she answered, "A lover is the one who will spend money on you." I laughed out loud after hearing this...But if you come to think of it, there is a truth in her definition. For you, what is a "lover"?
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@ShibbyKid (279)
• United States
17 Jul 09
A lover is someone who you care for more than family, more than friends. Someone who is there for you and you are there for them as much as you both can be. You can not live without that person because they mean the world to you. They get what you say, they take you for who you are, and they accept everything you offer them. They make you smile, laugh, and feel happy. They literally have the other piece of your heart and they were born with it just like you were born with theirs. If you find true happiness with one person, do not let them go, you are lucky to have found them and you life would not be the same without them.
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• Philippines
17 Jul 09
This is really a very inspiring definition... I love it. Thanks for sharing it here! Good day!
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• United States
17 Jul 09
Thank you. This was a good topic, i loved sharing. Good day to you as well.(:
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• Philippines
17 Jul 09
Yes, keep on mylotting! And keep on sharing here...by the way, do you already have a "lover"?
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• United States
17 Jul 09
Well the word lover can be looked at in many different ways. I think a lover is someone who you love unconditionally and makes you feel the same. I think a lover is someone that no matter what words you look for to describe them, you'd still fall short. I mean, that's just me though.
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• Philippines
17 Jul 09
Yes! Right! I like that praise "no matter what words you look for, you would still fall short"... Nice one! Thanks for your response!
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@miller1978 (1104)
• United States
17 Jul 09
My definition of Lover would be the person whom I am in love with, share a home with, share everything where there are no secrets. Someone who will stand beside me through good times and bad. See me at my worst moments and try to make them better. Someone who shares common interests where we can do things together and yet still have our own time apart. Someone who cares enough to worry if I'm gone to long or if I'm having a bad day. Someone who knows when to say "I love you" instead of saying it all the time.
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• Philippines
17 Jul 09
Wow! That's great... You really have a very nice and idealistic definition of a lover... I hope you will soon find him (just in case you haven't yet).Thanks for sharing!
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• United States
17 Jul 09
Actually I found that person 2 years 3 months and a few weeks ago on March 27th. He has definitely showed me what "real" love is. Believe me, he is on a pedi-stool in my life. I would be lost if it had not been for me.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
23 Jul 09
your friend's answer is true for some lovers... but for me a real lover is somebody who inspires you in each and every little thing that you do... :)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
Yes, true...I definitely agree with your definition of what a lover means...Thanks for posting here!
@mobhomeir (7567)
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
A lover of course is a person who is ready to love, to sacrifice, to be patient and ready to fight his/her love to the one he/she loves...
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
Great! What a nice definition! Thanks for sharing here in my post! Good day!