I don't hate men!

hello! your attitude is normal because i also acted that way before i met my husband..i don't have guy friends, i can mingle with them but i can't say that they're my friends. i can't give them my trust which is an important component in friendship. maybe because i don't want to be hurt if they will break my trust.. but my attitude change when i met my husband..ohh love do change your attitude. happy mylotting!

It happens...when my first marriage fell apart (b/c of abuse) it was years before I was ready to date again. I had to rebuild trust in men. Don't let it get to you and go at your own pace. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG AND TRUST IN GOD**[/b]

Same here. People would say that I am "Single since Birth". Well, yes I am. It's really hard to trust men. I did some dates but I haven't enjoyed any of them. I don't know. I am 25 but still I don't have a boy friend yet.

I think what you're doing is the right thing to do. you do not want to get into a relationship just because. You should be in a relationship because you find this person someone you can trust. It is very important in every relationship- that both people are comfortable and trusting with eachother. So you're totally right in this! Power to you for knowing what you want! So many of us women have a hard time figuring that out!

I feel the exact same way about men! It's so hard in this society to find someone who actually wants to be in a relationship and not have alternative motives. You never know what the other person is thinking. It's scary to put your trust in someone. I wish relationships didn't have to be so difficult.