Who would you choose the ONE that you LOVE or the ONE who LOVES you??

@phesaru (300)
Philippines
July 17, 2009 10:10pm CST
I'd rather choose the one who loves me because as the time goes by i will learned to love that person unlike choosing the one that i love that in returned that person didn't love me and i will just suffer the consequences. WHats your opinion??
6 responses
@Quetta (13)
• United States
18 Jul 09
I would choose the one who loves me
@phesaru (300)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
hehehe,,wer the same! =D
@daliaj (5689)
• India
18 Jul 09
This is a very very difficult question to answer. It is sad to say 'no' to someone who loves you, but at the same time you can't accept somebody only because of the fact that he loves you. I would rather prefer to go for someone whom I love. That is what I said in my real life too. I can't marry anybody only because of the factor that they love me, I have a lot of other factors to consider like, my parents permission.
@phesaru (300)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
choose wat the best for you girl but in my opinion as what i said i will choose the who loves me bcoz when the time past by i can love him for the rest of my life but if i would choose to the guy that i love and the thing is he didnt love you just hurt and suffer that you choose a wrong person..anyway we have a different opinion and choices..ty for the response =D tc
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
After a failed relationship,i guess i would rather choose someone who loves me.
@phesaru (300)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
ohh..sorry to hear it! nice choose than someone to hurt you =P god bless and ty for the response ^_^
@mikokre (132)
• Nigeria
18 Jul 09
Well as for me, just as you have said i will choose the one that loves me the most but it will be a very big sacrifice for me. Infact it is going to be a 50/50 choice for me because, i know that the other whom i love that doesn't love me as much as the one that loves me most still loves me too. lol
@phesaru (300)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
yea,its true.,, ty for the response =D
• India
18 Jul 09
i too choose the person who love me the most as he could make my life beautiful and happy ever after , but its a very confusing topic to choose , but people will think of choosing the person whom he loved as he or she will think of making their life happy with their loved ones buit it doesnot a true fact ..
@phesaru (300)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
hmm..yea than to suffer your self to the guy that didn't love you.. thanks to your opinion..happy myLotting =D
• United States
18 Jul 09
I would rather choose the person that i love that i know loves me. if the one i love doesn't love me, i can't waste my time trying to convince this person to love me. i can't rush them into anything anyway. if i don't love the one that loves me, i would not want to hurt that person by making myself love them. that is wasting their time and my own and causing a pain that i wish i didnt cause. there is no problem with waiting for someone that feels the same way about you that you feel about them. its just a matter of time. love will find you when it needs to find you. if you make it appear on your own, its usually not the right kind of love. love is not forced...ever.
@phesaru (300)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
thats good idea but what if u choose the one that you love but that person didn't love you,so you still stay with that person even thou he/she didn't love you? you just hurt your self..in my opinion only! =D