What will you do?

Philippines
July 20, 2009 8:23am CST
What will you do if you found out that you and your bestfriend has the same crush?What are you going to do with your situation? Situation: I was so confused that day.My besfriend keeps on asking why?I didn't answer her.I came up to telling her why.I told her that was because of my friend..OUR friend.She was shocked.She asked who and why?Then I told her that I was confused about my feelings to my friend.If I really had a crush on him or just as friend. It started just that day.My friend[boy] touched my face and pull it.[friendly one].After that I can't think on anything except for twhat my friend did. Then she told me..Well,it's okey for me if you won't tell who was that.Just do make sure he's my her ]ex crush name],[friend's name],[her ex crush name]. Now what are you going to do if your boy friend texted you a quote regarding about friendship and love? "It hurts to fall inlove with someone who only sees you as a friend.But what hurt most is knowing that,that person loves you too but denies it..Because of FRIENDSHIP..
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@julbau18 (273)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
Well love needs maturity. It's okay if you both have the same crush. It doensn't mean that you betray your friend because of that situation. I think you're still young so time is too long for you guys. Just let your feelings for him float and wait for the right time. Let the boy tell what he really feels for you. Let your friendship grow and soon later on as you both growing. Your love also grow and who knows he will become your partner.
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
You're right that love needs maturity.I know it doesn't mean I betray her but..I just can't stand it hearing what she had said before that "I only sees him as friend.I'm so overprotected about him." She do know me more than anyone in our school.But does she mean that she don't have a trust in me or whatsoever?Hmmn..I'm always confused about that matter.Maybe I'll just let my feelings for him float just what you said.Thanks
@geniustiger (1699)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
I also have this experienced when I was young or start to fall in love. My crush and friend is very close to me and I think he fall in love with me . Everything he needs he always talked and asked me . Not knowing my best friend also told me that he has crushed of that I felt too. I dony\t understand my feelings of it deeply that she never knows I'm fall in love with him much. I just listen what she talked about him and such what makes her crush to him. I did not told her that he is also my crushed. I just pretend that I have nothing or feeling of it just friend but deeply my heart beat faster. oh! He is so good and have the qualities of what I wish for in my life. Years gone by only to find out that he only treat me as friends. He has someone he loved and she is also closed to me. Its so hurting for me but only cry in hidden way just to comfort my feelings. Till now even if I am married I cannot forgot him in my heart and my mind. hehehehe!
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
Oh really?hmm..have you experienced that that boy[your friend] did asked send you a quote but more like a message from him telling you have a feelings for him and he feels the same way too but he/you just can't tell this to everyone especially to your girl bestfriend because of friendship