love can be learn?

Me worse, I actually do not like my husband at all. Sort of "I kind of hate him coz he is very fussy and like to pass negative comments!" hmmm. But as times goes by I begins to see the good sides of him... end up we are married and have a son. Life is like that! I heard quite a number of my friends that they ended up with some one whom they hate at first! They are like enemies, criticised each other, but later their views changed..this happens in movies too!