Do you have friends?

@Sanoko (14)
United States
July 21, 2009 2:51pm CST
Yeah do you have friends? I don't. I don't understand why either. I don't understand why no one will talk to me. I don't understand why when I did have friends they soon never talked to me that much or invited me anywhere. I want friends, but it's hard to get them.
7 responses
@lizzrr (135)
21 Jul 09
I have friends online and offline. The best advice I could give is see the real world, I mean, go out and meet new people. If you have part time job you could try interact with them. I myself, find it hard to do that as I've been connected with internet life which I hate the most but I try to lessen using the computer a lot. That's all, good luck.
@Sanoko (14)
• United States
21 Jul 09
I don't have a job because I'm not able to have one right now, I do go to college though. I can't drive so I can't get out of the house by myself.
@lizzrr (135)
21 Jul 09
Looking at your profile you're just a year older than me. =D There is plenty of time to find a friend and since you're a college student it won't be hard for you to have a friend if you don't try your best. Just be positive and talk to people you'll come across or your class mates. I do still find it hard to find a friend here where I live because I'm different from all the people in my class, but if you just sit there and isolate your self from them it will seriously put you down. I'm a picky person when it comes to having a friend, because I don't trust people easily. So, all I can say is talk to them and sooner or later you'll be friend with them.
@besthope44 (12146)
• India
17 Jul 10
Well friendship is nice gift of life.
@greenline (14865)
• Canada
12 Nov 09
Hello Sanoko. How are you ? You certainly sound like a very sincere and friendly person. I am sure there are many people who want to be your friend. Just that you have not come across one another. When you do, and when you become friends, you all will be so happy, keeping in touch and sharing the value of true friendship. Don't be down-hearted ! Your happy days are just around the corner !
11 Oct 09
Of course I do have friends, a lot of friends for exact. =) Well, I know sometimes it is not easy to have one. Just be yourself and I believe that someone will appreciate it. And I think it is very important for us not to think that never talk to us means the same way as 'don't friend with us'. It depends on the meaning of the friend itself. For me, friends are somethings important with whom I can hang out with, I can chat with, and I can share everything with. =)
• India
25 Jul 09
hey Sanoka.....Ill be your friend.....well I'll try anyway....cheer up! i'm sending you an invite....please accept....we'll get to know eachother slowly ok! Luv
• Malaysia
22 Jul 09
In my offline world, I have recently been told ... or rather asked, why I don't/barely talk at all. Funny... I actually DO talk. It just turns out it was different stuff being talked about with different people at different time. And so happens this person was not the one I had anything I felt like saying anything to, or even had any idea what to tell her about, even though I had stuff I do speak about to my other friends. Yeah, I do have friends. But sometimes I wonder whether I really do have that criteria that can be befriended. Being too quiet? Would it make people stay away? I guess so.
• United States
22 Jul 09
Yes i have friends!! Online offline and in real life that i kno lol!! Its really hard because Your so called friendds willl act fake all of a sudden i dont kno if thats what they do!! And if they do that 2 you! You sould confuont them like dont be fake i abosultly hate fake crap!! And i kno ppl sayy ohh she say i am fake but fyi eVerybodys Fake in some kindaa way!! And for them friends that you have that wont talk 2 you! it dont matter if u have friends on the block you live on ore on myspace onn facebook or a dating servoius It dont matter aslong as you have friends some way!