When did you first realize how fragile life was?

@Courtom (287)
Canada
July 23, 2009 10:36am CST
We tend to grow up with the "it won't happen to me" attitude. When did you first realize how fragile life was? Share you stories. Were you young, or older? When you first experienced death in your family, witnessed an accident, heard in the news about a rape, killing, abduction, been in an accident... etc My first experience that I can remember was when I was very young. I was in grade 5 and was the youngest bus patroler at my school. We lived in a small town, and big semi 18 wheelers transport trucks passed through our small city streets as we didn't have a bi-pass. Coming through the town we passed one, and as we approached the lights there was a little body lying in the street. The traffic had been stopped and the whole bus full of kids were witness to a dying child. I do not want to be too graphic, but they soon covered his body with a white blanket/sheet, and I remember most the blood being absorbed through it. We were taken to school and our whole bus was put in the library to be talked to. The next day we were individually brought down and told by the councilor that the child had died. They told us that the boy was waiting to cross the road and a semi truck was turning in our small streets/intersection. The back wheels went up onto the curbed and dragged him under. It was my first wake up call. Even though I was young, I lived in a secluded home, in a very small town, the world was dangerous.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
23 Jul 09
hi i was just a school kid, i used to go to school on cycle... i was like 8 or 9 years of age, the school is just inside our colony and hence it is much safer for children to travel on bicycles and i never had that feeling of risk anywhere on the road... one day i came home and my parents told me a shocking news... a bus that runs in the colony crashed a kid on a bicycle and killed him instantly ... i was shocked, i though about that boy, people always said the driver of that bus was reckless, poor guy... he had a sister, a younger one... how much pain their family must have gone through... her smaller sister... how must she have felt... i know her and she is a nice girl... we talk to her when we meet her, i and my brother are now more like her brother now... it is nice to know she is doing great at college... it was when i heard about that incident at that age that life is so fragile, i used to be more careful at road, there was a lot to learn from that incident...
@Courtom (287)
• Canada
23 Jul 09
I think it is good for us to snap out of the feeling that we are safe. It makes us more aware of our surroundings. I am glad you were able to help her. Just recently in the news there was a little girl who was abducted, 3 months later they found her only 40 minutes north of where I live. We live in small towns, so it was a shock