can a boy and a girl remain just friends?

India
July 24, 2009 3:02am CST
i am very confused with my best friend. i care for her very much. i always think about her all the time.my friends say that its not friendship its love and i never know. but i do not think so.so tell me cant a boy and a girl spend their entire life being just friends.Without any INFATUATION or FEELING of love even once.
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@treychi (121)
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
well kul dude, If you're on that kind of situation I mean if you still have that kind of feeling.. the answer is NO. Having that kind of feeling with your best friend, I am sure, even though you think that it is not love you still like her. Think about your other girl friends. Do you care for them as much as you care about your best friend? Do you think about them like your best friend? A boy and a girl can remain friends. That's true. I have a lot of guy friends but I don't really feel something more than that. Maybe you need to sort out that feelings. Or maybe your bestfriend likes you too. You never know? asked her. If she feels the same way,.
• India
24 Jul 09
ofcourse they can be..there are somany people in the world who are just friends and happy in their lives..mine is grt example i got a grt friend in my life..ofcourse they family friends too from my child hood..we care a lot each other and now his wife is also my best friend.here comes the age factor which making u confused..when u little grow up you will understand the relation...so be cool and be friendly with your girl friend..hope ur relation go on yrs together..god bless u.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
24 Jul 09
Most people believe that a man and a woman can't just be friends. That there is something else always going on. I for one believe I can have male friends and they are only my friends. There is no hanky panky going on. My boyfriend has females friends and that is all they are. Just good friends that are there for each other.
@cmnavarro (251)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
hmmm... i think they can stay as just "friends" if they want to =)
@checkmail (2039)
• India
24 Jul 09
Hello kul_dude this is checkmail and yes a girl and a boy can remain just friends, as its now normal practice around us.Friendship is a symbol of peace and love, it doesn't mean that kind of realationship which mostly gets into some permanant arrangements.If we don't like an person, he would never be our friend, smilarly if kind of hatered person also will not be friend.This all doesn't mean that there will not be feelings in friendship.It up to us to keep it to its limits or make in turn into personal relationship.
• India
24 Jul 09
That's a funny question. The answer to your question is that it depends on how the boy and girl would like to carry on their relationship. If they want to be friends. they'll be friends. But if they want to be lovers, they'll be lovers! That's all I got to say here! Happy mylotting!
@Azaerus (820)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
Absolutely,a man and a woman can remain friends for the rest of their life without any feeling of infatuation..maybe what you're just feeling right now is true care for a dear friend who have played a big part in your life.. Having said that you've been friends for ages,ofcourse there'll be times when you'll suddenly be thinking of her because the way I see it,the both of you have gone to many ups and downs in your life with each other always supporting each others back.. It is normal to feel that way..It's normal too for your other friends to tease you about this matter..just don't mix up love of true friendship with infatuation for it will be a big hindrance to your friendship.. Hope I've somehow helped you..happy day..:)
@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 09
kul_dude, of course a boy and a girl can remain just friends.. we can't expect every boy and girl friends we have to be coupled right? Anyway, if you have care and think of her most of the time, it's either that you have fallen in love however there is some hindrance that you have not gone through. What I can say is, whether 2 person will be able to remain friends or in a relationship, it will be mutual understanding of the 2 person involve.. Happy MyLotting :)
@vinay316 (300)
• India
24 Jul 09
I believe they can as long as you do not expect too much from each other . There are various examples where a boy and a girl are just good friends and nothing more than that.
@mohak123 (104)
• India
24 Jul 09
i think a boy and a girl can be just friends ....as long as they want . but from my personal experience one or the other will attempt to take the relationship further ..me in this case ..which usually spoils the friendship.all it matters to the girl and boy if they just want to be friends and nothing more.