why nobody is agreeing with me

Men have a habit of wording things the wrong way. More than likely you are saying things in a way that make her feel like you are trying to take control of the situation/fix it for her, but really what you should do is listen and then slip your advice in as you comfort her about the problem.

You must be sad and puzzled.I have the same experence with you.Sometimes a friend tell that your opinion is fault.I'm sad,even angery,so I'll argue with him/her.When I calm down,I'll think wether I'm right or not. in fact what they said just tell you a side of the thing ,and it's not said that yours is fault.you can talk to another,and listen their opinions,and then you will learn more. Sometimes they just couldn't understand you very well.Time will prove it.Or you can prove your opinion. Some little things can be ignored.Don't let these things broke your relationship. PS:little things ,not involve some principles.

Never tell somebody what to do! They don't like it even if they like your idea. You just need to tell what you think then you have to tell them "Do what you want to do, I don't wan't to force you or influence you." Then most of the time they agree to your idea. Of course, if it is good and genuine!" Happy Mylotting!

its great opposite attract each other!!