would you cheat?

United States
July 26, 2009 12:13pm CST
Have you ever cheated, have you ever thought about cheating if so why what made you want to cheat? they say that women cheat for a reason and men cheat just cause what do you think?
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@benny128 (3615)
26 Jul 09
I can honestly say I have never cheated in the stereotypical sense of the word. I have flirted and had a bit of fun on cam if you know what I mean, but I have never cheated physically. Although my ex partner did physically hence why she is an ex lol, I also think that men and women are similiar and that we all have it in us to cheat, I really dont believe that men are more prone to cheat than women I think it just all comes down to opportunity and whether you think you will be caught. Similar to speeding in a car lol, you wouldnt speed if you knew you would get caught and fined but 90% of the time you wont get caught and some people never get caught.
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• United States
27 Jul 09
I think people cheat for a variety of reason. I know for me I've only cheated once but it was actually for the better in my mind. For me I got into a relationship and ended up getting engaged to this guy. Once we moved in with each other the relationship got tense but because we were with each other for so long neither of us wanted to end the relationship and instead made excuses about us just needing to work (really really hard). Well he ended up going into the Marines and right before he went to bootcamp we ended up breaking up for about 2 weeks and the day before he left we got back together. I cried the first night he was gone but afterward I didn't and I didn't really miss him anymore. I think the time apart was needed for me to really see that I wasn't suppose to be with him and instead we were both just being hardheaded. Well while he was away I started seeing this other guy who knew I was engaged with someone in boot camp but wasn't telling him because the guy in boot camp ended up getting hurt and was going to be medicially discharge and I didn't want to say something and end up hurting him so emotionally that those 2 months he spent waiting to leave would be so much harder. But when the guy finally got home we talked about it and I told him why and I told him I was sorry but the guy told me time away showed him to that we weren't meant for each other but he was still mad at me but understood my reasoning. And I'm still with the other guy and we are doing absolutely great. But for women vs. men I think everyone has a reasoning and normally I think its because they are in a failed relationship and refuse to really see it.
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• United States
29 Jul 09
I will admit that I cheated in the past, but it wasn't because I just wanted to it was because I was very unhappy and trapped in a horrible relationship. I've grown up a lot since then and my views on the issue have changed drastically. I know how it feels to be on the receiving end of cheating in a relationship and I can't say I would wish anyone to have to go through it. It's painful both emotional and mentally and can permanently damage a wonderful relationship. It takes a lot of time to heal those types of wounds and things never really go back to normal.
@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
26 Jul 09
I have never cheated in my life. I have never thought of cheating, and I hope I never do even think about it. It's not honest and I just don't want to hurt my fiance that badly.
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• United States
26 Jul 09
no i would never cheat on my husband and never even thought about it because i feel it this way if there is something wrong in our marridge we need to try to fix it insted of stepping out on it.and if it can't be fixed then we just end it there is no point in cheating.
• India
26 Jul 09
i have cheated few in my life. but it has certain reason as they have certain bad reason with them.