how do you know

he is eligible if: he has the same religion, he was unfortunately to parents, he was respectful to parents, he was unfortunately to me, he respects my family, and others.

Before I married my husband I looked at what he did and did not do. He did show a great deal of respect to his mother. He did not yell instead of talk. He did pay all of his bills on time. He did not have credit card debt. He did treat me great. He did know how to cook, clean, and do his own laundry. He did have a job, a drivers license, and a reliable vehicle. He did not presure me at all to get physical. He did not mind that I made more money than he did, but he also worked hard to make more money. There are so many other things that he did and did not do that determined if I even dated him. I suggest making your own list of things that are extreamly important to you and then see how he measures up. I also suggest that you talk about the things that are important to you in a husband and to him in a wife because itis better to have all the expectations out in the open before it is to late.