Do you ever feel that someone likes you? Someone who's not supposed to like you?

@wigima5 (908)
United States
July 28, 2009 1:41am CST
Okay this has happened once before when i used to talk with one of my friend's boyfriends thru d internet and at times we'd talk and it'd seem like he was flirting or i could just feel this thing this intuition that he liked me. But i shrugged it off and i denyed it, then later on one day when i was checking a message he said that he liked me. :O It was like an OMG this did not just happen/oh crap this is bad moment. And this happened even while he was still going out with her! :O So i deleted him. Now later I'm talking to another kid from class that I knew and he's my other friend's girlfriend. And we message eachother too and talk and I have that feeling once more that he might like me...:S And I have this guilty feeling because it feels like I might be leading him on (even tho im not flirting or doing ANYTHING) and it kinda feels bad cuz its my friend i feel like im doing something bad to her too. :S even tho tat guy's my friend too. :S so u feel this sticky situation im in. So...has this ever happened to you where u think ur friend's boyfriend might like you or someone that's not supposed to like you likes you? :S And do you feel guilty like that as well? :/
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@mensab (4207)
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
things like in your situation happen many times to a lot of people especially to those with kind, friendly and nice attitude. people interpret our kindness and friendliness as a sign of openness to move the conversation further or to build a relationship. it is unfortunate because of the big possibility of misinterpretation. it is stressful too. i hope you don't fall in the trap of those guys. take care of yourself.
@LouieWpHs04 (4560)
• United States
28 Jul 09
I'm a guy, and i've had girls flirting with me, and even kissing me without telling me any kind of knowledge that they had a boyfriend. It's kind of rough but for me I couldn't really feel bad at the time as if I didn't even know they had a boyfriend and they never told me as such and they clearly hit on me, what am I supposed to think! Your situation's a bit tougher though as you actually know both people and you know they're in a relationship.