In all circumstances you are as you are even you know that is not good?

@icesmile (7172)
July 28, 2009 3:10am CST
Even you know very well that people don t like to hear what you have so say, you will be just as you are and say honestly what is your opinion? You know that truth can hurt, but is truth, and you will be and say just your opinion, nothing more or less. In all situations you are you no matter what? Even you know that you can lose a friend, lose money, lose job, lose somebody, lose a love, you will be honest in all circumstances?
5 responses
@mistlady (114)
• India
9 Dec 09
Hi icesmile, to tell you the truth, nothing in this world is more important to me than my peace of mind; and I cannot be at peace with myself if I pretend to be what I am not or who I am not! It will haunt me if I am not true to myself. Now if it is the question of money or job or love, I will try my best not to lose them, at the same time be very discreet in putting forth my point of view with full justice to my personality and the person that I am.
@tigeraunt (6331)
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
it is very difficult for me to say things when i know i will hurt someone. but saying nothing so as not to hurt a person doesnt mean you are not honest. i just feel that it is better to be silent than to be vulgar and frank when you cant say anything good. if i dont like a person, i just avoid him/her. ann
@med889 (5958)
28 Jul 09
I am what I am and I will never change myself for someone else but I can change myself for my betterment which i know will only make me someone better in life. However i am someone who prefers to hear something on me directly instead of backbitting. I will say what I need to say in the circumstances.
@meapas (2434)
• India
28 Jul 09
Circumstances makes you more diplomatic these days. But as long as you are speaking logic, I can't understand why a rational minded person will leave you?
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
28 Jul 09
I am brutally honest,sometimes at the pain of others.But most everyone that knows me asks because they know it will be a honest answer .If they are truly looking for the truth on something.