what if you find your boyfriend or girlfriend fall in love with another one?

China
July 31, 2009 7:01pm CST
if you love your boy or girl friend very much ,but you find he or she fall in love with another one ,then what would you do ? And how could you keep a good relationship with your boy or girl friend if you cant live together?
2 responses
@Frederick42 (2020)
• Canada
1 Aug 09
I would feel very happy because my girlfriend is a human being and she has every right to fall in love with as many people as she wants. If I feel angry with her because she fell in love with another, then it only means that I am immature and it would be wise on her part not to love a person who is immature. Love is free. It cannot be possessed. Possessiveness has ebcome a poison and is destroying the heart and soul of man.
• China
1 Aug 09
yeah,different people has different opioions on the same question.Just enjoy your life!
@x_Jo_x (1042)
1 Aug 09
I think if my partner fell in love with some one else, there is no saving that relationship really. I now understand the saying, "if you love them, let them go". If you loved them you would want them to be happy, no matter what. And if staying with you when they didnt love them made them unhappy then you would end the relationship no matter how painful it would be. Also you would naturally be very hurt and angry and probably break up with them anyway. But once id calmed down i think i would like to slowely build back up some kind of relationship with them. But one little step at a time. In some situations i think people can never have a good relationship with someone who has broke their heart!
• China
1 Aug 09
I understand how painful it is when I find I lost my sweety.It is just because we cant enter a same university.We met each other oneline,we live in different provinces, but we fell in love with each other .We talked online ,by phone, by letters,send short messages, sent presents...anyway that could make us feel eachother.Then we decided to enter the PEKING foreign language university,while we fail the entrence exam both,and now ,we are in two different colleages which are far away.I do no know what will happen in the future,as you said "if you love him, let him go"