Are You Over Protective

When someone stares at my husband I just smile. Well, because in my mind, this person must be jealous of me, jealous because it's me with the guy he wants instead of her. I make sure that the girl sees my grin, just to make her more jealous (laughs)mean I know. I'm a confident person, and being overprotective of my husband is not gonna happen. Well he's confident too you know, more confident than I am so it's not really a problem for us, but we do tease each other if someone stares. :)

I don't think it's being overprotective, it's being jealous. Or insecure. No, it doesn't bother me. If someone stares at your husband, maybe it's because he's good looking. They don't know if he's married. Americans are free to look. They are not invading your privacy and they are not trying to take your husband. The woman that I have right now. Our relationship was new. We went kareoking every tuesday. One night, me, her and a mutual friend were sitting at our table. My girlfriend got up, I forget what for. Anyway she saw this guy she knows. He gave her a quick kiss on the lips. It didn't bother me a bit but I had to get her on that, so when she came back I said, "who was THAT?" Ina tone of voice to let her know I was playing with her. She said "oh that, that's Kevin. That's just a friend, Kevin. That's just the way he says hi." She asked her friend "isn't that the way he says hi to you?" Her friend said no, and we all laughed. That kind of stuff just doesn'tbother me. And me and her are still together, we have a house. And she's not going around kissing other guys (at least not that I know of. LOL) Let them look. They're not hurting you, and they're probably looking at other women too.

reason may be due to fear of loss

I feel pride when someone stares at my husband. I am proud to show him off to the world and feel happy when someone shares my enthusiasm by taking a second glance at him or staring at him.

When a girl looks at my husband I feel very nice. I actually feel proud that some woman is trying to hit on him! I am also very possessive though and would not want him to go around being friendly with other women.

c'mon gurl,it'snormal... don't listen to those who say you are too jealous or what...we're just human and we can't avoid to feel such way, sometimes we are just ashamed to admit it.

We're not overprotective of eachother at all. We trust eachother completely, and know that if someone was bothering us, we can take care of ourselves. Of course if we tried to take care of ourselves, and the person who was annoying us did not stop, we'd defend the other person, and let them know that we are together, but we are not overprotective or jealous.

My husband takes it as a compliment,I on the other hand do get a bit worked up.Women adore him because he is such a sweet heart. I don't believe in being jealous ,he does come home every night to me! But I will say when those female hormones are all messed up ,I can get a bit over possessive.