happy after revenge....??

I notice that you seem to think it takes guts to retaliate. How about it takes self control and class not to? Afterall, your revenge is not a mirror of the behaviour of anyone else but you. xoxo Cyne

Hi sis, Rakhi Mubarak. Revenge seems to be sweet until it is materialize. Besides the nature of revenge differ from situation to situation. Now if the matter is petty and still I am on my feet to give it a form and the person you have taken revenge does not feel that much but realizes that whatsoever he/had done was uncalled for might be both would be at with their good composition but if the revenge becomes too have it would really make specially me feel bad. In the play "Merchant of Venice" Shylock was too badly revenged and therefore criticism on this issue is still there as to what made Shakespeare come upon Shylock so harsh.

I don’t have any particular anecdotes to share coz I am rather not very proud of them but yes, I have plotted revenge on a lot many people though with little success. The plotting itself was satisfying enough and if something bad did happen to the other person, the satisfaction was complete. Do understand that the ‘something bad’ was not caused by me directly but just happened yet, I felt so happy, almost like divine justice taking place. Regarding myself, I have always been unsuccessful in getting even…God has always disposed off all my plans…so now I have stopped plotting revenge.

i just took revenge once in my entire life. i feel satisfied coz that person really did me wrong and i will never forget about it.. i usually forgive and forget but that one situation is an excemption

Hmm.. I don't think so. Maybe I will feel happy for a short period of time, but after that I will feel guilty. That's why I never realize my revenge will.. I only imagine it. But I get tired too everytime I imagine about taking revenge to someone. I think revenge won't solve the problem, but make it worse. You take revenge, he/she take revenge again, you again, so there's no end. I think better we speak or protect ourselves instead of take revenge. If it's because jealousy, no one you can take revenge with, because jealousy made by yourself. But if it's because she/he hurt you better protect yourself and stay away from this people. If you need to do something not really nice like hit or whatever it's okay, as long as the purpose is to protect yourself, not to take revenge..

Life is too short to worry about jealousy or revenge. Just ignore the people that try to cause trouble, and move on. Most of them time ill willed people are only out for a reaction. If they don't get the reaction they are expecting, that is revenge enough for me. Let them waste their time with foolishness. I have better things to do, and better people to associate with.

Being a only child has stayed with me all to long, when it comes to things like this. I am one of those people ,that must always come out on top.Revenge takes to long for me,I will start a fight in seconds flat if someone angers me enough.As for jealousy its a trait ,I choose to not use. I feel its a useless emotion just like hate.I don't know if I would call revenge gutsy ,its sneaky and I believe in being open and upfront. People take me or leave me ,no in between.Just as my life its black or white never opting for a Grey, area.

i was very happy at that moment but after time goes u relize that evil creats evil so u r not better than this person who made u mad and u want to revenge.

I don't agree with the jealous factor in this. I don't do revenge to somebody because I am jealous of them. But, I will do revenge most of the times if they hurt them badly. I think it is a common feeling to feel happy once you are done with the revenge. I mostly do revenge using words.

I will lie if I will say that I don't think of hurting someone back or doing the same thing they did to me that I didn't like. But you know what I don't wanna commit a sin just because of them. I just pray and leave everything to God. Besides, God knows whats best for them. And they will get what they deserve. Believe me, God will be the one to teach them a lesson. But only if we didn't do anything that made them hurt us.