when are you going to get married?!

Pakistan
August 5, 2009 3:31pm CST
Hi guys how are you doin?!.. My topic is about actually a problem that alot of people faced in the path of looking for a partner. lot of people didn't find the partner that dreamed to be with ! why?! what is the reason?! i know it's difficult to find the right partner but, is it that hard not to find at all !? some people rely on the idea of losing few more pounds or getting the degree is the way or method to get the partner, is that true?! lately i find some people look for partners online ! do you agree with that?!
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19 responses
@frinces (433)
• Philippines
6 Aug 09
Yeah! Nowadays, professional people are so busy. They are always hooked with the internet, so in able to find mate, they use online dating site as a tool. I, myself, had known my boyfriend through the internet. We made YM as our tool for daily communication. When we met in person, we felt and thought that we have known each other very well. As a result, my boyfriend gave me a marriage proposal and I already accepted him.
• India
6 Aug 09
Hi friend, you are very lucky to get a good boy friend through internet. I am tying for girl friend by using internet but not yet get any one. So all the best for future. I am from India. In India girls don't trust online chatters. So its very hard to find a life partner through internet.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
6 Aug 09
i'm 30...and I'm probably not gonna get married anymore...I'm so busy being a single mom and I don't think I will ever have time for relationships...
@cainam (493)
• Philippines
6 Aug 09
i think that you're still young to marry again. don't you like the feeling of being loved and loving someone?
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
6 Aug 09
The reason why persons will be unable to find the partners they are looking for is that he/she is not willing to compromise. Compromise is one of the powerful ingredients in relationship and if this is not practice then there will be nowhere for those couples. There are persons will change themselves to please other again this is wrong. After awhile when you find the person you think is the right one and the weight comes back what will you do then. Men are intimidated by educated women and so this can also hinder the search. Finding partners online can be good. You get to meet other persons from different culture and you are able to learned a lot before making your decision and who to choose. Friendship should be first and foremost here.I have no problem with this
@galileo2008 (1141)
• Philippines
9 Aug 09
I always think of getting married when I reach the age of 27 or 28. I wanna make sure that by that time, me and my future husband will have our own house and lot, wheels and with more savings so that there will be no problems after the wedding. All we'll have to do is to focus on our honeymoon without worrying too much on the wedding expenses.
• Philippines
6 Aug 09
Its minimal that a person can find a perfect partner. It is also minimal that you achieved a relationship that last until old age. God created the good and bad. There is no person that is perfect. Maybe some can tell they found a perfect person for them to live with. But how perfect it is. Yes its difficult to find a perfect person with a perfect figure, degree ot method to get a partner. It only you can tell if you found a perfect partner. On how you accept the person as a whole and understand regardless what figure, the character, and so on. Now a days we have internet, theres so many website for love match. If you were lucky to find a partner on line. Many of them is sensir on how they agree upon during their conversation. I agree on it but not a 100%.
@thokius (426)
• Austria
6 Aug 09
The world population is already pretty high... I think around 7.3 billion. If you get married there's no point in having children. But until then you have to wait and trust your body... unlike most of the time. Anyways about me... If I get married I face the danger of having kids. The problem with that is that I have consumed too many genetic sinitures and if I do have children they will probably die in the first two months from genetic bleeding. So I guess I'm not going to get married.
• Singapore
6 Aug 09
i don't agree that losing a few more pound or getting a degree is the way to get a partner as i believe a partner is a person who you truly love and care about and it applies the same to the other half as well. i agree that it is not easy to find the right partner in this big big world. but definitely it will come and i am working hard to get the right one as well.
@giorazor (46)
• Georgia
6 Aug 09
i got already twice ;) i'm very happy now and what i was looking for i got now but never say never what will happen god knows ......
• Indonesia
6 Aug 09
I only going to get married when I already find the good one (not the perfect one, because I know nobody is perfect) and if he and me already find a job or anything that related to make money, so we won't face financial problem. I thing everyone have their own specific partner criteria and way to find his/her partner. I don't think it's a problem. Look for partners online is okay for me, who knows maybe he/she will find the right one? as long as he/she be careful then no problem. I think it's waste of money if you getting the degree as method to get partner.. Maybe you will get and educational partner, but then why don't you use your knowledge for your own work than make college only for place to meet partner..
• United States
6 Aug 09
I think that I will get married in couple years later. At that time, I will be done with my school, and it is a right time for me to settle down. I am really looking forward for that moment.
@Beshaxy (21)
• United States
6 Aug 09
i do not know when. i'm still looking for a girl..., and i hope she come to me soon.
• Philippines
6 Aug 09
I have nothing against people who try to find their partners on line. As for me, I would still want to look for someone in the more conventional way, like meeting through a friend, or through a party, something that involves personally being acquainted with the person. As for getting married, probably not any time soon.
@grundmang (112)
• Israel
6 Aug 09
after im done wiht my studying in about 5 years...
• United States
6 Aug 09
Well, really, when you meet THE ONE, you should know. You should feel love for them like never before. For instance, when I met my boyfriend a year ago, I KNEW it was meant to be. His name's Aron, mines Nora:) Same, spelled backwards. I couldn't live without him. So yes, it's hard, but evident.
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
5 Aug 09
No, it looks like I'm not ever going to get that chance. I do have someone that I'm sharing a house with that we both bought. At that time, I thought we were. But she kept on backing out, then later saying ok, then saying let's postpone it for a year, then later on it was a definite no. We will be together forever, we just are not going to have the ceremony. And that's too bad because I never have. But at least I found someone. But to respond to your topic. I think there are to many people looking for perfection, including what you mentioned, looks. When you are talking about finding someone you are going to spendn the rest of your life with, I don't understand "I won't marry her unless she loses a few pounds - or even 50 pounds. It has nothing to do with how you're going to get along with each other. another thing is money. "try to find someone rich." And it's those rich, good lookingt ones who many times turn out to be real jerks! I'm talking about both men and women. Or the marriages that disolve because of "irreconsilable differences." I wonder how many of those differences are as bad as they seem. The ole "he leaves the toothpaste cap off." Everyone is going to have imperfections, evreyone is going to have habits that another one hates. Look at me. Not ever getting married. But still, I coudn't imagine life without her.
@sam_jr (35)
• India
6 Aug 09
no i do not want to get marry right now becoz right now i am only 22 year old and i think i have more goals in my lige which i have to achive in my future so i do not think so that i shoud get marry so earlier.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• United States
6 Aug 09
I'm blantantly refusing to be married.
@x_Jo_x (1040)
5 Aug 09
I think Love is every where and you can look online to find someone and possibly can find the love of your life and live happily ever after. I think sometimes we end up with someone who we love, but i think we all have one person who we are truely in love with in our lives. We dont always end up with these people, or we are with them then split up. I dont think we should change ourselves to attract others. We should change to make ourselves feel better, or not change at all!
• China
6 Aug 09
my opinion is that despite this opportunity is rare,we can look for a suitable parter.the key is our courage ,our confidence .when we have new friends ,we will realize each other by conversations .if it is right for you ,please come on. the intrenet provides many probability for us .we reconganize many friends by it. but the internet is not a goog way to get the parter .because the party probable is a liar