how to deal with a lazy brother?

Hi, acie. This is a very annoying situation that i also experienced with my sister, but now she highly responsible in her work. Actually, this kind of behavior results from the lack of sense of responsibility, and sometimes a feeling of inferiority. Being her sister, you should try to talk to him with love and tell him that he underestimates his position in the family. You should tell him that your family depends a lot on him either now or in future, with some reasonable points. This way, he will sense a feeling some responsibility on his shoulders. Tell him how your parents have striven to bring him up, and how much you all love him. Never give him any examples of others or of yourself, rather set forth examples in front of him. Like, even if he is doing some work by himself, help him out. This way, he will learn to help. Never show your annoyance to him, this way he will learn to love. Actually, following these practices will cause much more irritation in your mind, but be cool there are long tern effects. Also, tell your mother that the excessive love will result in problems later on. So, she should be rather tough to say NO sometimes to her dear son. Happy Mylotting!!