What would you be if your not who you are right now?

@Azaerus (820)
Philippines
August 9, 2009 3:06am CST
Have you sometimes wondered who you'll be if you're not who you are right now? Me,sometimes I do..I sometimes imagine myself of being a successful model. There was once an offer of modelinf for me but I turned it down. So sometimes I'm wondering if I hadn't turned down that offer will I stil be me this time?Would I be living here in this city or country now? How about you?What was your true ambition?have you fullfilled it??Do you think that if you're not who you are now,you'll fullfill your ambition??
3 responses
• China
9 Aug 09
i am just a student. i want to be a simultaneous interpretation. i know there is still a long way to go. but i believe i can make it as long as i work hard enough. i wonder if i can ask you a question. what is your dream? what do you really want to be? someone you are now or someone you imagine? i think you should try to find the answer first. why do you just imagine? if you really want to be it, why don't you start right now?
@Azaerus (820)
• Philippines
9 Aug 09
Hi there and welcome to mylot, Well that's a pretty tough question you got there huh??The answer to that is I'm satisfied to how my life turned out to be,eventhough I have turned down a pretty good offer for me then I'm still happy how things turned out. If I have accepted the offer back then,then I wouldn't meet my girlfriend now. I could have fame and popularity if I accepted the offer but then I would be miserable and I don't want my life to be miserable at all.If I would be given the chance to change everything I would definitely refuse it because I'm happily living with my girlfriend at the moment and nothing could replace that. That's why sometimes I only imagine because imagination couldn't change anything. Did I answer your question?
@Azaerus (820)
• Philippines
9 Aug 09
Thanks..I'm so lucky to have my girlfriend too,she's perfect for me in everyway. Have a nice day and thanks for sharing your opinion..:)
• China
9 Aug 09
it is raining now. hehe... i understand your meaning now. you just want to know what life would be if something happened in the past. but you don't really want it happen. i misunderstood your meaning. hehe...by the way, your girlfriend is so lucky to have you.^-^
11 Aug 09
oh yeah.. this is the question in my heart too. I ponder upon this everytime i get frustrated with what i m doing now, its natural to feel so anyway. I would have taken up the offer to pursue my education in the States, (btw im asian american living in asia) and woulda finished by now, and travelling/working around the world experiencing diff cultures on a few gap years before i settle down. am i still harboring that dream, yes! and i will make it happen (though im really not sure how to, since its so 'screwed up' now).. though nothing is certain as yet, life certainly has a way of turning things around, you'll never know, but the important thing is not to stop dreaming, keep believing and start doing tht which is relevant to reach ur dream, if that's wht u really really want in life.
@Azaerus (820)
• Philippines
11 Aug 09
Hi there and welcome to mylot.. Life really is like that but as you said you never now how things will work out in the future. You can still achieve your dream I'm sure of that. Just continue working hard and just believe in everything you do. I can see you are pretty determined to reach your ambition in life. As you said just keep dreaming and believing.:)
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
9 Aug 09
I am a 37 year old primary school teacher in real life. If I wasn't myself I would be a diplomat living in lots of different countries. I would have a home base in my home country and set up home for a few years in a selection of foreign places. I would get married and have two children: a girl and a boy. I would retire to Belize in the Caribbean.
@Azaerus (820)
• Philippines
9 Aug 09
Wow that seems to be an ideal life to be,but quite expensive too hehe..Teacher is a pretty occupation you have to deal with lots of people and different faces everytime. You also have to deal with different attitudes of different people. I don't picture myself as a teacher because I don't want my life to be so serious..hehe Is it hard being a teacher?