having friends means having more trouble

@ke0nxz (75)
August 10, 2009 11:37pm CST
i have lot of friend in my life.. from cyber and real life.. will explain a little about my life .. about friend of mine.. i was worked for a company.. i have salary im different with my friends most.. im a nice person that will help friend if they need something .. but the fact they take an advantage of me i dont like that so much.. but i just cant say no.. so i dont spend my time with them anymore coz they never keep stop asking me for help their finance problem .. so please tell me if this a good way out?
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@varunsdo (204)
• India
11 Aug 09
If I were you , I would clearly say no to such friends. I kow my money is hard earned one so I never waste it on friends. But if a friend of mine really is in some trouble and know that his problem is genuine and his parents can't help him, then I definitely help him without being asked. This is the only right way which I follow.
@ke0nxz (75)
• Indonesia
24 Aug 09
i always help a friends .. thats my weakness maybe i should check about their problem before i give them my hand or money..