what if ur lover has a different religion with you

say the word to some1 u love - a word that people used to say if they love some1..
@ke0nxz (75)
Indonesia
August 13, 2009 5:16am CST
i have a lover with different religion .. i never feel to separate a girl according to religion or anything. the most i need is they respect and care to me.. so as far as i know we had a good relationship running.. and we are getting close to an engagement.. we will become same religion i hope.. what will u do if this happen to you? is this a right decision or do we have to avoid to make relationship with other religion ? please help with any advice thanks..
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6 responses
@med889 (5958)
13 Aug 09
I am from a different religion than my boyfriend and we are together for more than 3 years and his parents do not mind as they love us the way we are however my parents are still against our relationship and my brother is the sole one who disagree the most. I will not end my relationship with the man I love because religion is not very important to me compared to the love we both share together.
@ke0nxz (75)
• Indonesia
13 Aug 09
i marked u as best response today.. i feel that u have same way that i do.. i want to keep my relationship and keep asking "why not" if any1 try to against our relationship.. and get information from them why they treat us like that/.. because mayybe they dont know how to be like us.. so they dont know how hard to keep this relationship alive and keep it stronger..
@med889 (5958)
14 Aug 09
I am happy with the person and I do not think I have to ask someone what doeshe/she thinks about my relationship with him though my parents are totally against our love I will continue to be with him tell our relationship last.
• Philippines
15 Aug 09
For me having different religion is not a big thing. I and my husband or boyfriend are living in the same roof but we are not yet married. And that's the main reason- religion. We have a 2 year old baby now and we don't have any problem. And our relationship stay strong as the days go on. Though it's not that good to see 2 people living in the same house, until they got married. But my point is, as long as you love each other, why sacrifice breaking up just because of religion? We all only have 1 God that we're believing.
@ke0nxz (75)
• Indonesia
15 Aug 09
wow.. that statement just open my mind.. youre right about that.. hmm maybe its different rule going on there.. as i know we cant do that in my country.. and its also about aour family who againts us.. but yeah u can do that when u think that u will do what u want to do..thats not bad at all but living at 1 house b4 married .. hmmp thanks for your response =)
@Jean25 (344)
• Philippines
13 Aug 09
my x and i had different religions, but i proposed to him but i could change mine and be in his religion to be with him. but he refused, he said you can't simply replace religion simply because of love..so, we end breaking up with each other.
@ke0nxz (75)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 09
thanks b4 about ur short story but i can understand your potition.. your X BF a have a little similar with me.. i think he think about u, your family who didnt agree with ur relation .. but it seems there is something more important for him above love.. but i believe if both of u has ssame religion .. that will be the best gift in your life.. hmmm im affraid i cant face my girlfrinds family to say that i want to marry her.. because my heart keeps telling me that " you cant take this happiness(my GF) away from her family" " and im affraid you're not the best for her"" this will cut her relationship with her family"..i never mean that!! hmmmp my heart keep telling me that way.. thats so confusing me..
@fchalida (196)
• Indonesia
13 Aug 09
some people fill it's ok and no problem if different religion in one house, the important thing is respect each other. for me, i cannot stay with different religion in one house, because when we are going to have children, children will be confuse that in the world there are so many gods to believe.
@ke0nxz (75)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 09
wow im glad you response about this.. thats make a sense really.. we need to respect each other.. but what bout kids.. ummmm yeah thats gonna be a new problemw... so i think the way out is to avoid relationship with other religion if possible.. for me its too late .. maybe for the other who doesnt have same problem as i do.. before its to late think couple times b4 u enter relationship like this.. it will got you confusing all the time as long as u have relation with them.
@miamhae (339)
• Philippines
13 Aug 09
one of the foundation of good relationship is RESPECT, what ever her/his opinion, according to anythings or issue we need to respect what he/she believe...As you say, you both respect each other religion, my advice for you is don't let any body bother you, for what you have now.. A good relationship based on respect and love.. Good luck and congratulation...
@ke0nxz (75)
• Indonesia
15 Aug 09
thanks for ur response.. love and respect.. such a good point to keep this things up.. i will try as i can to convince her parent that i can be a good husband for her and be a part of her family too and love them as much as i can.
@ggurlz (8)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
its depend in you relationship. what if both of you in love each other. so both of you can decided to make relationship with they same religion.