Fade up with some mylotters from my friends list

India
August 14, 2009 9:05pm CST
when i open my friends started section of discussion i found silly discussions like do you like this or not, do you have this or not. I dont like to participate in this type of silly discussions and that's irritate me. Even those people who has started these type of discussion are not interested to participate in my discussions. Should i remove those friends from my list?
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3 responses
@webearn99 (1742)
• India
15 Aug 09
Yes it does look like it, but then they would not go to the extent of starting a discussion unless it was not important to them. I think it would be judgmental of me if I base my decision to remove them from my list just for that. Ranvir, I think you should take such decision only in the case of people who are being openly abusive or insulting. OKAY! if it does not interest you, you don't comment. That way both of you are not hurt. Removing some one from your friends is somewhat like insulting that person. By far an undeserving punishment for posting discussions you feel are not important, intelligent or engaging enough! Come to think of it, we can contribute immensely if we respond in a very meaningful manner and raise the bar little by little. Don't you think?
• India
17 Aug 09
yes you are right to remove someone from friendlist is to insult him and that person would not aware about reason behind that. Happy mylotting!!
@norrisl4 (65)
• Zimbabwe
15 Aug 09
Well, you show them the way by starting what you consider sensible discussions. I don't what to say about this particular discussion. You are also free to change your friends. So, move on if are not happy.
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• India
17 Aug 09
happy to get your response. Happy Mylotting!!
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
15 Aug 09
Hey, Well as far as iam concerned there is always going to be something in others whcich you are not going to like and vive versa. Trust me there is a lot of things in you which even your best friend dont like. SO should he ignore you? Or delete you from his friend list? Also when adding a friend here, i c what type of discussion they have started or responded. So u can pick and choose. If you ask me Iam quite happy with my friends and their discussion. I have made soem very smart friends and i have no problems whatsoever. Cheers, Tutul
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• India
17 Aug 09
yeah this is real that thre are many indifference in between two good friends but sometime due to some chemical creation in brain people started to think negative. That was the reason behind starting this discussion. continously i was failed to participate in discussion becasue most of the discussion started to few people and like that only. so i fade up and start this discussion. Ok leave it. Happy mylotting!!